Ok we had some suggestions about traditional songs with a "guilty spin."

So please do share:

I'll continue on that theme.

"It's beginning to look a lot like two christmases"

"O Stay All Ye PASful"

"Away at the BMs"

"Skids in Toyland"

"Red Christmas" (debt up to eyeballs after CS is taken out)

"Jingle Hell"

"Skids Are Here For Christmas"

We have been married for a little over two years now and have no combined finances except a joint savings that we don't really use much. DH wants to meet at the bank to put me on his checking account. I asked why and he said he had been wanting to for awhile now. I will go do it, but I do not want him on mine. Am I wrong?

So....yet again we have another issue that BM has to cause drama and think it's her way or nothing at all.
Divorce decree states each parent must keep insurance on child and pay half of out of pocket expenses. BM has NO medical insurance on ss6 because when she divorced me DH they worked for same company, had same insurance so she let DH carry ss6. Well now she doesn't work for the same company yet claims DH insurance won't accept dual coverage. That is BOGUS. I carry ss on my insurance for dual coverage. That's number one.

DH's kid is pissed at me. She wanted to spend a few days with a girlfriend so they could go to the county fair. Cool...fine...whatever. However her girlfriend's BioDad would be picking them up tonight and taking them to his house. Again fine, except we take DH's kid back to Uberskank on Friday and DH needed the Biodad's address.

Hello,

I currently live in Virginia and My huband has gone from joint custody to visitation because he is not the bio-parent. We currently are haveing trouble with the BM not letting the child talk to us on the phone and along with other drama and hurt feelings for both my family and mostly the child. I was wondering if there was anyone who would have some advise for us with dealing with the court system. we think that it would be a good idea to place the child in therapy and have no clue if the court would even hear us out. Help???

Or G.D.A.D. for short

Geee Dad, why are you spoiling your previously enjoyed family?

Geee Dad, why are you letting your previously enjoyed family wreak havoc in our family?

Geee Dad, why are you letting the BM call the shots in our home?

Geee Dad, why are you kissing your spawn's nether quarters?

Geee Dad, why don't you provide boundaries and structure for your crotch droppings?

Ladies, if a man with children comes a knockin' at your door, SEND HIM PACKING!!

Really Bm is one of those BMs that would spend child support on her hair and nails but not on her kid and now needs us to pay her back $5 she spent on ss,fucking unreal. I spend more on SS when he is with us every other weekend yet I dont get that money back...(Why not DH?.......Your fucking ex whore does)it pisses me off so much to think about it yet its email after email i need money or you need to pay for this....NEWS FLASH BITCH thats what CHILD SUPPORT IS FOR

sorry im really angry.....

Hi members of steptalk. I have been reading posts on this site a lot and I just created an account. I should have done it earlier. I had no idea you could track the new comments. I decided to blog because my therapist has been suggesting I do something like this. I have been seeing a therapist because my step family life has been very stressful. I think I will use the lingo everyone seems to be using here, like Dh, Bm and Ss.

You'd think grown ups would know better than engaging in bullying. Grownups that have been through some rough patches in life, who should have had enough pain in their lives, to feel empathy. What satisfaction does one get by this? Are these the same people that bullied others at school? Give me a reasonable discussion and I will hear you and maybe see things in a way I had not seen before. call me names, spread lies, dismiss me, and I will never see where you are coming from. Pointless.