First I want to thank anyone and everyone who reads this. This is the most difficult situation I my self have ever had to deal with. But here goes! I met a man 19 months ago, he was going through a nasty divorce at the time. He has 3 children and I have 3 children, all of which their ages are mine being 17, 12, and 5. His being 10, 7 and 5. We have been together through the entire process of his divorce and let me tell you its been one hell of a roller coater ride, because of the EX and all her immature Bullsh**. We decided to move in with each other this past august of 2005. His divorce was final in november of 2005. He has joint custody of his children and has them every other week, so we see them alot, which is a good thing. His children are very comfortable with my children, and they just adore me to pieces, well lets just say when their mother isnt around. This is where all the bad stuff comes in. I do not like her and she does not care for me either, she basically poisons the kids minds about me and my children, to the point where they feel uncomfortable even talking to me when she is around such as at school functions, or sports games etc...She sends nasty emails to my BF telling him that he isnt taking care of the children the way he should be, when he does every thing for his kids, he provides for them medically, sports,tutoring, clothing, shoes you name it, he does it, AND he pays her full amount of child support and she doesnt even have them 2 weeks out of the month, plus she DOESN"T work. Recently I made a comment in a public place about how their one child always has bruises and such whenever I see him, well a parent that knows his mother went back and told her what I said, so her BF tells me that he would appreciate it if I dont bad mouth the kids mom,(this was a horrible conversation) this really irritated me since I am always having to deal with false accusations from this woman about my children along with jealousy etc....I feel so bad for the children, and I really love the kids like they were my own, they are very close to me as well, like I said though when she isnt witnessing it, what do I do about her behavior and what she tells the children about me, its bothering me alot and its causing issues with my relationship, I feel like leaving my BF just to get away from all this stupid nonsense sh**, but I know thats what she wants, she doesnt want him, she just wants him to be miserable and alone, but if I stay I feel like I have 13 years to go before it gets better. it has gotten to the point after her rude emails about me and my children etc.. that i have tld her to never speak to me again, and she even told the children that, she said dads GF doesnt like me, so now they ask me why I am mean to their mom. I am so torn and stuck its horrible, and sad, for everyone, all because of one immature parent, well if thats what you want to call her. And for the record, I was NOT the reason of their divorce, she left him for someone else. Please help with any advice, if I need to elaborate a little more for better undersdtanding, I can do that too. Thanks everyone!!!! 
I have to deal with a person like that too
Jan,
Some of the things that you said sound very familiar to me. I however, don't have any kids of my own and I don't know if I would have been able to survive in the relationship if the evilness was directed at my children.
My stepson's mother hates me too. She says a lot of bad things about me to my stepson. He is always more standoffish with me and his father when his mother is around. She always tries to undermine my relationship with my stepson. I think I posted previously about how last Mother's Day, she told my stepson that he shouldn't have gotten me a present because "Dawn" is not your real mother so she doesn't deserve a present. Unfortunately, all of the bad talk only hurts the child. No matter what my stepson's mother tells him about me, he has his own feelings towards me(good ones)and that confuses him.
Does your significant other back you up? Does he confront his ex about what she says and does towards you? My husband has finally started to put his ex in her place if she does/says something horrible and not true about me. Still, she gets away with some things, as he has to pick his fights. However, since he has started to stick up for me to her face, she has gotten somewhat better. We still have issues, though, and I will not deal with her directly anymore!
Hang in there if this is what you want but know this. It will get better as the children get older as long as your significant other stands up for you!!!
Dawn
Thanks Dawn
I'm glad I found this site to have wonderful people to talk to, and so far there is no negativity towards me.........LOL. Anyway, yes my BF does stick up for me, and I am so grateful to him for that, he sticks up for me so much that the ex has even told him that he now puts me ahead of their children, which is of course complete and uetter Bullsh**. I to do NOT want to deal with her anymore, it has come to the point where I have even told her not to speak to me ever, and now she has her BF relay messages to my BF (the kids dad) that I was heard saying things about her in a public place, its so pathetic its not even funny. I try SO hard not to let her or her stupid immature acts bother me, but a person can only take so much, I mean seriously how many times can you laugh something off and be like "yup, satan is at it again". After awhile it gets old, real old and tiresome. thank you very much for the reply though it really helped me alot, I bet this will be much cheaper than therapy huh? LOL.Thanks again, Jan
blended families
Jan, I think our boyfriends ex's are the same person!!! You get to the point where you feel like you are going crazy! Why can these women not leave it alone and allow the ex to go on with his life? We constantly hear that he treats my children better than his own, which is not true by any means. His children have never done without. I have struggled for over 10 yrs now raising my 3 children with no child support as their dad does everything in his power to avoid paying for them. Their father does not have access with the kids on a regular basis either, comes in and out of their lives every couple of years. If my BF's ex only knew what it was like to have the other parent not care enough to provide for his children, or not care that a couple of yrs. go by before seeing the kids. I am so sick to death of her whining and complaining and her trying to make him feel guilty about things. My BF had an injury last August and is still unable to return to work, may never be able to. His child support was lowered in the courts due to the income change and she was furious over this. She has the kids relay info back to her if my BF does anything around the house....sends emails demanding to know why he isn't working yet if he is able to do this or that. Sends nasty emails about me interfering with "her" children. I don't have anything to do with her, but we operate like a family at our home and us being the parents in our house, make our own rules. We blocked her email addy, then she started calling 9 times in an hour and 15 min, the next night was 8 times in 2 hours. Guess what her emergency was? She had some receipts for him to pay his portion for extra's that she had been refusing to give him. So now we have been legally advised to send a journal back and forth only addressing concerns of the children every 2 wks when they are here for access. That we are only to return her calls if she leaves a legitimate message on the answering machine stating its an emergency. If she doesn't do it, we will have it court ordered...we can't take her bull anymore, we deserve to have a normal family life.
ex wives
I just cant believe what im hearing..there are other people out there.feeling and going through the same thing!!!..its like someone stole a page out of my life!!!...well around here its been so crazy my husband is in iraq, and ive been dealing with his ex wife, she driving me crazy. since my husband been gone we are still on the same schedule with the kids we have kids for 3 days then she has kids for three days..(whitch i dont believe is good for kids at all, to much change all the time for them) anyway, she has come by my house every night to see the kids, to yell about schoolwork, to cry to them about breaking up with her boyfriend, she had a total melt down crying to them about some guy. standing in my kitchen.then went upstairs with the little one to see if her room was clean, then yelled at her because her bed wasn't made!!.. .every night i have them she makes up something so she comes over!...the kids get very upset after she leaves,and it takes me hours to calm them down, ive tried to talk to her about this but i get the same old same old, there her kids well this is MY HOUSE!!!...i love these kids and its killing me watching them go through this, i no there her children,and im trying to be respectful, but enough, yesterday she came by to see if they where doing there homework. i said no we havent started yet im cooking dinner and after that we all sit down(there 3 kids 1 mine) and do it together..she started screaming at the top of her lungs they do there homework right after school when they get home and that im useless,,me and the kids where so upset after she left we couldn't even eat dinner...thats when the oldest one hes 11 said please don't make me see her again.shes says mean things about you and dad and i hate her!...told him to let me think about it and when he got home from school the next day wed have a long talk...hoping to get some advice before he gets home!!
Re ex wives
Oh my goodness. I feel for you. I couldn't imagine what that must be like. I am dealing with a wicked ex too, but she would never do that. I think the reason that she has been checking in like that is because she feels that you are a better mother then her. Seems like she is a major control freak. You are right not to want that in YOUR HOUSE. Those are her children, but I think that your husband needs to set the rules here. I know he is over seas which makes things more dificult and she knows she can get away with it. You have to stand up for yourself and tell her she will no longer disrespect you in your house. If she becomes confrontational then call the police. If you have family near by have them be there.
Prayers are with you.
Oh my..
Here's my take. First, lay down the law. It is your house and you do not have to have BM in it at all. Tell her unless the kids specifically ask for her to come over, you do not want her there. It is just three days for Goodness sake. Tell her to call if she wants to talk to the kids.
As for the conversation with 11 year old. What I think is the "right" thing to do is to listen to his feelings, validate and help him see another side so that he can have empathy and still love his mom.
Are you sure you want to maintain visitation while DH is overseas, fighting for our country? You are a brave and honorable woman, truly, to take this on. I commend you. Sounds like your presence in their life is very valuable. You must take care of yourself though and setting boundaries and rules is your first order of business. Good luck and let us know what happens.
I believe my stepson hates me.
Everytime my stepson is with us, I feel like he dislikes me or feels uncomfortable around me. I'm pretty sure that his biomom feeds him false information about me, maybe to not like me. He is always distant from me, never says hi when he arrives home. He is now 9 yrs old., he became my stepson when he was 3 yrs. old. I remember one time when his biomom called my husband to tell him that his son said that I hit him on the head, that of course was not true. Was she just making that up? I have a 5yr old daughter and at first my stepson use to fight with her. I feel like his biomom feeds him bad information and probably snoops around and asks questions about what's going on in our household. One time my stepson asked me if I was happy in the relationship? I said to myself "why is he asking me that? unless his mom asked him to ask me that question. I told him yes of course I was happy...he then said "is that the truth?" I was just like yes, why are you asking and he said nothing.
I totally understand!! I
I totally understand!! I have two step children (ages 13 & 14 boys). The 14 yr old is terrible most of the time. His mother treats him like her significant other when he is with her, so when he stays with my Boyfriend (of 7 yrs) he thinks he is an adult and will not obey any rules. Instead lately he barely even talks. He is VERY standoffish towards me and tries in every way to make me feel not included in anything. My BF and is ex-wife have been divorced for 11 yrs and have to communicate through attorneys still (at the ex-wife request). Unfortunately, the ex-wife is a licensed psychologist and makes our life a "living hell", filling both boys heads with lies. My email is pridenben@aol.com if you choose to talk. Maybe we can help each other, it sounds like we have alot in common. Take Care
Marie
SD that hates me!
I also am a SM. i have 3 skids and girl 11, boy 14 and boy 8. SS 14 yr old lives with me and my hubby. 8yr SS adores me and would love to live with us. BM hates my guts and tries her hardest to turn the kids against me. She has (after 5 yrs) managed to get SD to completely write me off. It didn't use to be that bad. SD has always been stand offish with me but warms up after the first couple hours of our visitation. Recently she has turned into a terror! She has even said loudly in public as she was getting in trouble by my hubby that the only reason why he was getting on to her was because of me and that is why she doesn't like me. (It was very hurtful and embarassing). She has also told me recently that her mom said that I did some type of "voodoo" ritual to make BD fall in love with me and I took him away from his family. Of course that is not true! In fact she cheated on him and that is why they are divorced. I am to the point where I feel no emotional connection with my SD and if I never saw her again that would be ok. I feel like I am being bullied by an 11y/o! This has strained our marriage because of course my hubby loves his D and wants us to have a good relationship but believe me it will NEVER happen! I know I cannot stop BM from telling all her lies about me but how do I live my life like this??? HELP!
I know exactly how you feel!
I know exactly how you feel! My SD is 13 now. I've been with her dad for the last 8 years and she just cannot stand me. We used to get along really well in the beginning of the relationship but I think that having her mom tell her crazy stuff about me over the years has finally gotten to her. I haven't seen SD in over 2 months and it's absolutely fine with me. I have no feelings towards her at all. I know it makes my husband sad that we don't have any kind of relationship but he also knows her mom has had so much influence on her so there's nothing really anyone can do. My advice to you would be to just let it go. Be polite and civil when she's around but don't bend over backwards trying to make it work with her because it will just eat you up. There's no way you can compete with what BM is telling her daughter.
Learning to tell self----enough already!
This is mey first write in. I'm a SM to two SD for the past 8 years. It's been hell! I've have bent over backwards and then some. I'm learning to let go. It's hard knowing that my DH needs me to do and help out even though the girls are 20 and 22. Yes, their BM is bi-polor and has influenced them against me, even though the girls say she has not. The girls are so much like their BM that their behavior is frustrating. I'm bitter to the point of not even wanting them in my home. I didn't think I would ever become that kind of person. I'm glad I have found this site and know others have some understanding.
Wow! I have finally found
Wow! I have finally found somewhere, even though it is not really a "place" to vent as a stepmom. I have been married 4 years to my husband and we have custody of his 5 chidren. BM is crazy and is also bipolar. 3 out of 5 kids are bipolar. One is in a theraputic boarding school right now because of her illness. My husband is the love of my life, and if I did not love him so much I would run so fast! There are days I do not know how I function with all that life has handed me. My husband is much older than me and has not been physically healthy for the last 16 months which means that I have been a single parent for the kids that are not "really" mine!! Because of the age difference and the amount of energy and work that these kids require, I don't think that I would have any of my own and I am ok with that. I just need people who understand what it is like for us SM!!! My husband supports me soooo much, but I just can't expect him to truly get it. Please reach out and help me!
Welcome!
I encourage you to sign up and become a member.
It sounds like you have a tough road to travel.
I can't imagine having 3 bipolar stepkids and a bipolar biomom.
Dawn
Brave Soul
You are very very brave, I commend you. And you said, "...I don't think that I would have any of my own and I am ok with that." That is amazing. I mean, I would not be okay with that, but of course that is me personally, I could not just take care of kids that are not mine and not want to have my own and feel the pride in raising my own child. You must be doing an awesome job, I am so glad to see that your husband supports you!!! That is invaluable!
I thought I was the only one going through this
My boyfriend's ex wife is incomprehensibly evil.
She has turned her oldest daughter (12) against me and my daughter.
When I am around this girl, she usually will not even speak to me.
My boyfriend doesn't really take up for me in regard to her.
Makes excuses for her probably because he's afraid to be taken back to court by his crazy ex. She has already taken him there once because his daughter said he "threw her against a wall".
Thankfully this accusation was ruled out by the court and the ex wife was given a strong reprimand by the judge, but even that is not stopping her from poisoning her kids against me, and possibly him as well.
Unfortunately no court can really prevent that.
I love my boyfriend very much but it really hurts not being able to go around him when his kids are there. When I do go around them, mostly the older daughter who is just like the ex, I'm ignored and feel terrible when my boyfriend doesn't take up for me.
I don't know what to do. He won't marry me i'm sure because of the kids and his fear of the ex turning them against him.
I have to admit, she probably would!
i'm so sorry for your pain, but it's good to know that I'm not alone.
I think I have it Worse!
My husband's ex flipped out as soon as we got married. She got my email address and started sending me vicious emails under an alias, talking as if it were her, she just doesn't use her own name so that we cannot prove it. She says she is still sleeping with him. She tells me that he calls her all of the time and tells her how "dumb" I am and all these other hateful things. She tells me that their daughters hate me, which is so untrue. Basically, she just wants me to doubt him and think that he still is having a relationship with her behind my back. She will then call and leave him phone messages regarding the most irrelevant things just to get to me. She acts like everything is fine between them. Meanwhile, he has had no contact with her for months. At least that is what he tells me and I really do believe him. He hates what this is doing to me and he knows that if he did have anything to do with her behind my back he would lose me. We are going to court to hopefully have a judge see what she is up to and get someone to be in the middle so that there is zero communication between my husband and her. What she wants more than anything is to have him call her. Even if it is for negative reasons.
I Totally Understand You
Your story sounds just like my life. I have been with my husband who is the love of my life for 3 years and we have been married 7 months and since meeting him I have had this frustration in me that I just do not understand - some days I think it would be easier to just end the relationship than have to put up with his ex anymore. Ever since our first date his ex has been texting, calling, emailing and carrying on like a nut. She used to send messages trying to get him back with little kisses at the end but I stopped that around xmas by cutting her down with a reply text. But she has recently started finding any little excuse to call or text my husband - there is always something she just has to tell him. Although my husband does stick up for me he is also pretty civil to her when she calls because he is scared of her not letting him see his kids (which she would never do because she can't wait to get rid of them). She always talks badly to my two step daughters (7 & 10) about me and my husband and when they come to stay it always takes them a while to warm to me, they just seem to ignore me and act as if I don't exist and I get really upset because when they are with us I am the one who dresses them, feeds them, takes them to birthday parties etc. When the kids go home his ex sits them down and they go over everything we have said and done so she knows everything going on in our life. I just don't know how to deal with her always in our life. I feel like it is my husband and his two wifes and he has even said that before because she contacts him that much! Help what can I do to get over this????
Oh the dreaded ex...
I have to deal with the manipulation of an my husband's ex-wife too and it is no fun. One of things that I realized too late though is that we can't control her behaviour but I can control mine. Having the support of your spouse and agreeing to deal with these issues in a unified way is crucial. We didn't and so we live in separate houses now. I couldn't cope with my husband being bullied by his ex all of the time and the games that she played. I knew that his behaviour would not change unless he made that choice but I also knew that my reaction had to change for my own sanity and happiness...and it did! Good luck and stay unified in your response...it isn't easy that is for sure!!!
What to do
I'm now dating my best friend. He is a very sweet man. I met him about 5 years ago and at the time he was going through a divorce. His wife cheated on him and she didn't want to be married anymore. However, they are still friends.
Approx 1 year after his divorce he asked to date me and I didn't say yes until 4 months ago. About 3 years ago, around the same time, we both moved from our hometown and moved to separate states. He's in Penn and I'm in GA. The problem is this, anytime he goes back to our hometown he stays at his ex in-laws home. His ex-wife lives there also. He and his ex-wife still exchanges expensive gifts on Xmas, Birthdays, etc. He still spends the Holidays with her and her family. Their son lives with him however, she still allow her to receive child support. Approx 2 years before we started dating I told him that it was unhealthy for him to be so attached to his ex and her family and that he needed to move on in order to find him someone. Well now that we are dating he recently went to our hometown and although 4 of his friends suggested that he should stay with them, he chose to stay at with his ex and her family. He wants to move to GA, however at one time he said that he would have to take was his ex suggested into consideration because of their son. I need some advice!!! This man is very sweet, however, his ex seems to have this hold on him. I've discussed this with him and he stated that "We are only friends and she is the mother of my child." Should I run for my life?????
Tiffani K...
I don’t know that I’d ever tell a woman to run for her life…someone one on the outside looking in may have told me to do the same thing when I said that I was madly in love with a man with two girls 6 months apart….had I listened, I would never have the BLESSED life that I have right now with a man who loves me more than anything in the world! So…if you have strong feelings for him…stick around b/c the pay off could be swell! HOWEVER, you two DEFINATLEY have some work to do!!!! I can tell you straight up that it is going to be HELL for you that he and his ex are still so close….it is bad enough that there is an ex around to deal with but when they are still so buddy-buddy…that is gonna KILL you eventually if things don’t change….When he said "We are only friends and she is the mother of my child." Did he mean that the two of you are only friends or that he and the ex are only friends? Either way, you have to discuss with him your idea of boundaries. Ask him how he perceives that things will change when/if the two of you get married…explain to him how it makes you feel and see if the two of you can come to a compromise…I mean come on, once the two of you are married he can’t expect that you will be okay with him spending the night with his ex-wife at his ex-inlaws house!!! Have him talk to an older wiser married man that he trusts and get his opinion on the issue like his father, pastor, etc….Keep us posted and WELCOME to the group!
Make a GREAT Day!
You need to think long...and hard on this one
I too, experienced the same situation while dating my now husband. Guess what...it doesn't get any better! You really need to think this one through. My situation is/was as follows...Initially, they spent Christmas together (while we were dating) as his children (he had the 2 boys & she had the daughter) had little time together as siblings & both sets of grandparents lived within 30 mins, so it was one great big friggin' family reunion & I was in PA with my parents (who were also very elderly). This arrangement worked as I really wanted to be with my parents & I knew b/c he had been stationed all over the world in Army that his holidays had been limited with his family. Makes sense, thought we were being adults, right? Until I found out he was buying her expensive perfume, etc b/c "it looked good for the kids to see him giving her something for Christmas" ?????? Anyway, this type of behavior continued after we were married & we eventually separated, with HIS relationship with the EX being a major contributing factor. Actually, in hindsight, it was his "COMMITMENT" that was the real issue. So after a long period of him paying for 2 homes (his & mine) and "dating" we decided to reconcile. On the list of conditions for my return, number #1 on the list was a severing of his relationship with the EX. All the kids were over 30 y.o. at the time of this "ultimatum". And come to think about it, the EX issue was really the only thing I requested that he resolve prior to my return. So, he feebly attempted to speak to adult children to request that they not bring their mother to any more family events @ our home (always came un-invited, or dh knew & didn't tell me). But, old habits die hard & everytime he visits in FL, the EX is up close & personal. We can't even visit with the SK (now all over 38) without her being up our butts! So, my solution, I don't go to visit with him to FL to see SK's & grandkids. But guess what, she is in every friggin' picture they take & sitting by his side. WTF!!!! It never ends. Tiffani...you really need to think this one through. If BF can't cut the ties now WHILE you are dating, honey, it's never going to happen. You will find yourself staying with his EX in-laws before it's over!!! They have a great way of rationalizing things to make you think you are crazy & selfish & they are right. Try to get some perspective on this and do it FAST!!!!
sounds friggin familiar!
WOW FOR A MINUTE IT SOUNDED AS IF ME AND U WERE THE SAME PEOPLE! SUCH BS WHEN IT COMES TO MY FIANCEES EX . SHE HARPS AND HARPS ABOUT MONEY LEFT AND RIGHT ABOVE THE CHILDSUPPORT MONEY AND ITS SOOOOO AGRREVATING. I HAVE A HIGH PAYING JOB AND SHE PLAYS ON THAT TELLING HIM WE HAVE IT SOOOOO EASY COMPARED TO HER! YEAH RIGHT B****! NOT WITH HER CONSTANTLY SQUEEZING MONEY OUT OF US. MY ADVICE TO ANYONE IN THIS DEALING WITH THE EX-WIFE CHAOS..... THINK TWICE IT ONLY GETS MORE COMPLICATED...LISA
RUN!
Tiffani,
He might be your best friend, but it sounds like your not his. He has an unhealthy attachment to, not only his ex, but his ex in-laws.
You need to make him, make a decision.
Hi Tiffani
APD
I'm in a similar situation and if there is any way to talk with your BF and let him know how you feel and realize that what he's doing is not good for your relationship or the children. My BF says the same thing that "they are friends and SHE's the mother of my children", I'd like to stamp that on his forehead, but that's another story. I don't care if she's the pope he shouldn't be sleeping with her there.
I'm also a product of divorce and of parents who were at the time very selfish and didn't realize that some of the things that did or said were not good for us and our understanding of relationships/love/divorce, etc. etc. Continue to write here there are alot of great people here with some great information and are totally understanding. I'm new to all of this myself and its quite the ride, so hold on and keep writing! Good luck!
exwife and new boyfriends relationship
Hi, I'm reading your story and feel the same and have the same questions weather to stay or run from this ordeal. My new boyfriend has a close relationship with his ex but says it's because he wants the kids back (she's got full custody). she's an alcoholic. He tells me that he still loves her but could never be with her because of her disease. On the other hand he has expressed to me how wonderful their lives used to be and he would do anything if he could have his family back; as a whole, this i took as getting her back too..."the whole package". Now, how am i suppose to react to this? they are going on camping trips together? His parents love her to death! I really don't know if i should stick around because what if one day she decides to get sober and ask for him to help her? I'm history! I really am falling in love with him and he's the first man in years that i've connected with and i don't want to lose him. I don't want to be hurt and hung out to dry either....should i wait to see what happens or get out of this while i still have my sane mind?
RUN and run now!
You're headed for heartbreak. Ditch this guy before you REALLY fall for him. Please trust me on this. You're setting yourself up for a BIG FALL!
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Soon to be Fearless the Free!
There is no way this
There is no way this relationship will work out for the best. One, do you want to share this guy with his ex? They are too close for comfort. He may be a great guy, but, it seems that he has not let go of his ex. If he had, he wouldn't need to continue doing things that are for people who are intimately involved. I am sorry, but, it is disrespectful to you for him to stay at his in laws and to exchange expensive gifts. He should be spending the holidays with you and your family or you and his! As a good friend told me once, if a man is truely into you, he will do anything for you including sleep on a concrete floor to be near you. Girl, dump this guy and find someone who will be your one and only female companion.
Ex infatuation
Boyfriend needs to DISENGAGE from the ex-wife and her family. His only communication with them should be superficial or about child rearing issues. His continued familial bond with them is very unhealthy for a new relationship. I think I would reconsider moving on in a relationship like this.
Yes Run for your life.
Yes Run for your life. There is such a BIG poplulation of men out there. You dont' have anythign thing that is going to tie you to him so you can make a clean run. Take it from me, you will be much happier with a man who has no past following him. You both can start a life together fairly for both sides. Not you having to deal with a lot of "stuff" that he can never understand what it's liek for you cause he can never be in your shoes.
That is some messed up S***.
That is some messed up S***. I'm about to marry a many in a month and a half and the closer it gets the more his exwife calls. And it bothers me that they act like good friends. I trust him..... but I don't her. I know she is trying to cause problems, and she wants what she can't have. But, I just had to tell someone. Thanks.
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