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I so wanted to respond to SS22's facebook post, he was complaining about the fact that he doesn't have a girlfriend...., saying it's so hard for great guys to find a good girlfriend....gag me
How can he even think that he has anything to offer when he is fresh out of jail (3rd time), sleeping on my couch, about to get his butt kicked out of my house, and doesn't have a dime to his name except for what he has mooched off of us. What's he gonna say, "c'mon back to my place, we can share the couch" lol.
I cannot understand the way he thinks...
Hi Guys
Havent been on in awhile..had lots of stuff going on with the divorce, house moves etc..
I really hate myself for not liking BF's kids. But I don't know what these kids think. They steal from me, they lie, they are disresectful. I do more for them then their own mother. I do and give to them exactly as much as my own bio kids. It always bites me in the hinney. These girls claim to love me so much and they want me around but then they turn around and steal from me or lie. They have never been disciplined.
Look out BM,
I just saw a pack of shit eating dogs in your neighborhood. When they see you I'm going to celebrate.
lmao
So my DH comes in today from work and a bunch of questions later I find out he has gotten the evil SS16 a Christmas present. A $100 dollar prepaid Visa and a necklace. Ugh WTF....SD comes up with she preggo at 16 like 3 weeks ago...says she 4 months....in my opinion it's another lie, but I guess we will see in about another 4 months if she's popping out a baby. When he told me that I flipped I told him there was no way in hell we were gonna help her. I mean we barley get by as it is. Needless to say it was a huge fight and he left.
Ok, so most ifyou know the history and if you don't, read some of my posts from this summer. But basically ss can't stand ds. Ds is no angel, but he loves ss (they are half-brothers) and always wants to be with ss. Ss gets understandably annoyed. However, ss fights with ds. Yes, ds might hit ss. And ds gets punished for it. We had a talk with ss about not hitting ds anymore (remember the video?) and that we would take care of ds if he bothers ss too much. Well his weekend ds came running that ss hit him. I wasn't in the room and didn't see/hear what happened so it was hard to do anything.
My kids thought I had them for Christmas this year and we were all excited and looking forward to it. The ex informed me yesterday that he gets Thanksgiving and Christmas this year. So I left and cried because it shocked me. But I didn't throw a fit.
My kids like to watch their littlest brother with DH open his presents. They are as sick of the "papers" as I am. They are 19, 18, and 12. The girls talked to their dad and arranged for them to do Christmas early over there so they could be here for our big family get together.
I see now how helpful the idea of disengaging can be for a SM... but I cannot seem to figure out how to implement it without so much friction and hurt feelings resulting in my marriage. My DH essentially feels a huge amount of personal rejection at the idea that I would ultimately be happier being less "hands-on" in raising his kids. He can't mentally separate my relationship with him from my relationship with the kids because to him, we are all on "his team".
My step daughter has taken advantage of me and my house for the last time...I've talked to my wife about her laziness and she talked to her about it...It went through one ear and out the other...Finally after being alone with her toady I approached her about the house cleaning and taking care of the cat (litter box)...She's26 YO and still living with me and my wife of 5 years...The straw broke when after out deep discussion of responsibilities and independence my wife came home from work and said the house looked great...(It was my doings that made it that way) Then after our talk, I found
I make it a habit to check the facebook page of SD17.5 every few days. We aren't FB friends, but she has her page set to public (mine is not!) so it makes is easy to see what kind of mischief she has going on. That is how I learned about her being under house arrest, hanging out with much older boys, and her new habit of smoking a hookah pipe (yeah right that isn't a bong!). I haven't told DH what I've learned on FB because the ostrich approach to things he can't fix seems to be working for him right now.
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