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so SS17 has decided against going to college because his mom said he should go somewhere closer (he was only going an hour away) because she'll miss him!!!!!!! he won't hear going to community colleges or anything online to get a start, he will just continue to buss tables at the pizza place he's currently working.
he told me this and i wanted to drive to that bitches house and punch her in the face!!
WHY WHY WHY would you do this to your child?!?!?!? back the fuck off and let him further himself so that he's not a scum sucker like you!!!!!!!!!
I have been looking at magazines (Better Homes and Gardens, etc) and they always have these PERFECTLY decorated trees. In some of these houses, there are children living there. Do you think in a back room they have a "secret" tree that has all of the construction paper Santas and clothespin Rudolph's that their kids made? LOL
I would LIKE to have a tree like that, but I have all of this stuff that the kids made when they were little, ceramic ornaments, stuff like that. D
o some of you do two trees?
Well, I have managed to once again get on my bride's shit list.
She was ranting this AM about how we have been in the new house for two and half months now and it is still not put together completely and how the Skid and I do not help, etc, etc, etc.... I was sleeping when she started the loud drawer closing so I rolled over and put a pillow over my head and pretty much just heard muffled bitching from that point on. BAD MOVE RAGS!!!!
I read so much more in the winter than I do in the summer. Now that it is freezing outside and I avoid leaving the house if I can I'm trying to decide what to read next and if I am going to go with something new or a favorite. My all time favorites are To Kill A Mockingbird and Gone With The Wind. I read TKAM about once a year but the "Wind" is so long I don't read it annually.
What are your favorite books?
So I talked to dh, I told him how I felt about Thanksgiving, and how it went down.
I hate when my SSs ask this. For example: DH and I are joking about something and we might make a funny voice or say a funny line and inevitably SS10 and SS16 will say "whats that from?" implying that what we're saying is from a movie or tv show.
What I want to say: what we're saying is from a misty, veiled realm. A realm hidden by thick forests and tall castle walls. You have entered "Imagination Land" ever heard of it????
I was reading through so many blogs, posts, and other websites regarding step-parenting, and have realised a common thread... When you make the decision to take on a man who has kids, would the relationship not be better started when you do it from a point of disengagement as your point of departure. You enter the relationship with your stepkids from a point of being disengaged. Would this be a good solution to avoiding hurtful situations to begin with. You may also then give the SK's the opportunity to try and bond with you, as opposed to you trying to bond with them.
ugggg so mad!!! Today was SD16 b-day, so DH calls to wish her happy birthday. "Hello Sweetheart, how is your day going so far?" Sweetheart??? Sweetheart called me a "fucking bitch" just 3 months ago!! Then he ask her "what do you want for your birthday, do you want me to buy you something or do you just want the money?" Of course she wants the money. Then he ask me did I want to go to dinner with them this weekend?? :jawdrop: HELL NO!!!
I have mentioned about my step son previously, and was thinking that I had finally been rid of him (you will understand with the other blogs that I have posted).
He had gone to his grandfathers for the summer and we had started to try t have a child when he was gone, then all of the sudden comes back, and the trying had stopped as well as subsequently when he moved out and my wife was on her pity pot about it. With getting cut off sexually and being tired of the nonsense, I had met somebody and had an affair for about a month with a younger woman.
So fall quarter will be over in 9 days 
and then I am off to visit DH for the holidays!!!! I am soo excited!! It's our first wedding anniversary PLUS Christmas PLUS I haven't seen him in a month!! So...I have decided that I really want to try and bond w SS3 while he is still young so that HOPEFULLY I won't have as many problems with him when he gets older *fingers crossed*
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