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I am the BM of twins whom are 11 years old. I have a SS whom is 8 years old. My husband and I have been married for 2 years. Things are terrible. It is to the point on the weekends that he visits I start getting upset and angry that night prior. Let me just first start off by saying I am a very loving and patient person. I feel terrible that I feel this way towards my SS. My husband keeps assuring me things will get better but they are not. If anything they are getting worse. It is to the point that my BC do not even want to be home when he is here.
SS4 is coming to stay with us for the whole week next week (first time EVER), but I am a little worried because he is a very picky eater. DH has NO patience and gets really frustrated when SS wont eat, then SS gets in a pissy mood and it is even harder to get him to eat.
He only even eats with us on Sundays and we usually have chicken because it is his favorite and he eats that no problem, but if I have to have chicken for a week I think I might stop eating 
I really want this relationship to try and work between SO/FDH and myself. Not only because of the kids, but also because I do love him...
He has been trying hard lately to try and understand everything with all the stress he's been under at work at such. I can understand that, but I'm sick of being put last and the last 2-3 weeks, I have really been at him!
No counseling as yet, as we cannot afford it right now ... But I do see a psychiatrist every baby appointment, which are every 2 weeks.
Has anyone here gone to court in AZ? We are taking BM back to court for modified parenting time of 50/50, they did their mediation last week, and were unable to agree to most things...They did agree on a few holidays but that was all. Funny how things changed when I came into the picture after the divorce...the lets get a long and figure it out for the kids flew out the window.
Just Curious if anyone has any advice. She has an attorney and we do not, my husband says we have nothing to hide and no reason to get one. I disagree. Any help would be great.
Thank you
that I have to see her dumb name in my inbox almost daily. Well atleast since we started this email/Google calendar business. I don't know if I like that. 
Oh, and she's so dumb that she added her next pedicure, highlight, manicure, hair cut, facial, and brazilian wax to the KID'S calendar rather than her own...so we got an 'invite' to all of these appointments. I emailed her and alerted her about it and she goes, "ohh. Oops."
Love
(real love, the kind that can make a stepfamily survive and succeed):
• is patient
• is kind
• does not envy
• does not boast
• is not proud
• is not rude
• is not self-seeking
• is not easily angered
• keeps no record of wrongs
• does not delight in evil
• rejoices with the truth
• always protects
• always trusts
• always hopes
• always perseveres
1Cor. 13:4-7
Ok...so I have been on a business trip and I come home last night to my sd setting her butt on the couch attached to the computer and under the coffee table my puppy is chewing up a brand NEW pair of my shoes. I did scold the dog...but deep down I wanted to YELL at my sd. This is why:
1.) In all seriousness, I left the shoes out so therefore I was taking a chance.
2.) The dog NEVER chews on things when im there...because I watch her!
I am new to the blogging world but my situation with my fiance's ex wife and mother of his daughter has left me little options! I have been with him for 4 1/2 years now and we have big changes heading our way with the birth of our first baby right around the corner! Life with the ex has not been easy, in fact it is the only reason why my fiance and I ever argue or have ever been in bad fights.
Well it has been an interesting weekend around here to say the least. Since Ding Dong sent me his letter telling me he was getting the girls for his 2 weeks of summer time with only 3 days notice it has been one issue after another. Let's take one issue at a time shall we?
1). Finally got a call back from my attorney who assured me I was in the clear for telling Ex no. He is the one who did not follow the guidelines for his vacation time. He also told me to get a written copy of the threatening voicemail he left in case we need it for court.
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