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Im Not Wearing ~Myself~ Down

Tititired's picture

I'm in my early thirties and I have one child who is 12 and very mannerable. My problem is my boyfriend I love him so much but his head is all ifffed up because he has three children by a woman he was with for 12 years out of his life. His BM is a hot head and only about two lbs soaking wet. She's always texting him and addressing him the wrong way like she's down with the mob and most of the time I don't like the tone of it ~she's rude~. His BM wants him to do everything and he's a great father because he tries. She has no life no education no class and nowhere to live.

Am I selfish or just out of my mind.....

smiles gone's picture

Referring to my previous blog. My dh seems to treat me as less important when his daughter is around. He was arguing with me one day about the sd helping out our business... He said, very loudly (enough for her to hear), that the reason I don't want her helping at the store is because im jealouse of him spending time with her. Then not long after that problems started getting worse.

What do you think?

Tx mommy of 3's picture

So dh picks up ss to tomorrow (sat) and he'll stay a week. Sun, the bios & I go visit my mom for 3 days. Now when I usually go out of town I clean my house so I can return to a clean house. Nothing worse than coming home having to unpack AND clean. This time, however, ss13 will be alone in our house for 3 days while dh works all day. (dh was supposed to have off while i was gone but had to give up he days.) In the past, ss has stayed alone in our home twice. Once for a day and I returned to a normal house. Another time he stayed with bil who is only a year older than ss.

Can You Predict a Psycho BM?

Francesca's picture

I haven't posted in a while. SO filed for divorce in January. BM avoided service for three months. After service she filed an appearance in court. She did not respond to the petition or appear in court. SO's attorney has filed a motion for a default divorce. Hearing date is set.

This is a typical psycho BM who has sworn to never sign divorce papers yet she has put divorced on her Facebook page. She still tries to keep SO's children from him.

Million dollar question.

Will she appear this time?

Does it ever get better?

Dutenbager24's picture

BM of my SS7 and SD5 is has no rules. Took my husband's time away from him today to take the kids to the pool and told them dad might ruin their day by taking them from the pool. Except not only does she not have rules and allows whatever they want, she tells them their BD is mean to them for making them follow rules and SS7 told me he isn't even allowed to say my name there or she gets "ALL WEIRD" and yells at him. SD5 thinks she doesn't have to do anything I tell her because her bm has told her not to listen to me and rewards her for that behavior when she gets back to her house.

Save The Psycho Ex Wife --- Please Read

anita...sigh's picture

This is not about promoting another website but believe its important for the members and administration know what has happened at a similar board.

The Pyscho Ex Wife started off as a blog by a man going through a contentious divorce with his BPD ex-wife. No names ever mentioned, no identifying information.

His ex-wife discovered the website and brought the issue to Court and the Judge in the matter has threatened the man with taking his children away and placing him in jail if he does not remove the website and its contents.

The stupid game ends today. I called out DH's kid.

Shaman29's picture

DH's kid (d15) has one chore. Just one (with the expected pick up after yourself and keep your room reasonably clean). Wash the dishes before we get home from work. That's it.

Now, we've lived in this house for 5 years and I have never rearrange the kitchen or dining area in that time. Last night I'm making a salad for dinner and can't find the cutting board. It wasn't where it's supposed to be. I finally find it and I'm irked. Not mad, just annoyed because this happens all of the time.

Daughter Cut Her Hair: Need SM Advice! Sorry So Long...

WorldWeary's picture

Okay, this is probably reeeaaaalllly stupid that I am hemming and hawing over this, but if it is, so be it. I don't know what to do.

Here's the deal: I am BM of a five year old girl. Her Dad and I share 50/50 every other week custody and placement. Last week my DD's SM had a baby. We arranged for DD to stay at her Dad's an extra day or two so that DD could see the new baby. She was really excited about it.

I'm allowed to have talks with SD6 too!!

laurenkp07's picture

I've been in this child's life since she was 2! I have changed her diapers, nursed her fever, loved her, disciplined her, yelled at her, laughed with her, the list could go on. Yet I always feel like it's up to her BD & BM to have the "talks" with her. I NEVER discuss her mother with her.....that one IS up to her Dad.

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