I am the BM of twins whom are 11 years old. I have a SS whom is 8 years old. My husband and I have been married for 2 years. Things are terrible. It is to the point on the weekends that he visits I start getting upset and angry that night prior. Let me just first start off by saying I am a very loving and patient person. I feel terrible that I feel this way towards my SS. My husband keeps assuring me things will get better but they are not. If anything they are getting worse. It is to the point that my BC do not even want to be home when he is here.