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PeopleAreStrange's picture

I have been lurking for quite awhile and finally decided to join. No one IRL understands my situation at all and I have given up trying at this point.

I have one bio child with DH, 10 mo. We also have another on the way.

He has 3 children from his previous marriage- sd17,sd16,and ss13. I get along wonderfully with the oldest and the youngest (though I do get resentful still, it's hard to get over the life you thought you'd have in your head). The sd16 I hate with a passion I never knew existed. I alternate between hating bm and pitying her.

need advice on my relationship with BF and his unmotivated kids

bronxmom's picture

HI I am new to this site. Have been reading blogs over the last few days and decided to join to ask for some advice. I am a divorced mom of two children 21 and 25 both of whom are in school, one college and other in medical school. I have been on my own for the last twelve years, raised my children with the help of my mom and working two jobs to this day to keep kids in school, etc. I started dating my bf (boyfriend) almost 4 and a half years ago. He has two children of his own.

Rant about DH

NCMilGal's picture

White space so there's no cussing on the front page.

Why, why, WHY the FUCK would you NOT save ALL correspondence from fucking Bobo (BM)??

I just found this out.

DH: "man if I had all of those old emails from when we were arguing about this..."

Me: "What do you mean, don't you save them?

DH: "Nah, I don't save anything."

Is it wrong for me to call my husband a dumbass idiot? I swear, he and BM deserve each other sometimes.

BM doesn't want to pay CS so she will just be the babysitter...

newbiemommy's picture

My SO is the custodial parent of SD10. In the last couple months any time there is supposed to be a visit with BM she txt an hour or less before hand not to bring her. Theres no court ordered visitation my SO works it out between them. Well, these last few months I have been her primary care giver. Her mom has had her maybe a few days out of several months. It used to be almost half and half as she doesn't pay CS.

New here.

ECO-FINA's picture

hello you wonderful stepmothers. I am new here, and this is my very first post. I am beginning to think that life is not fair at all.

I am a 33 years old male, with a B.A. I am currently an elementary teacher.

My problem is, women never give me the time of day. I think I am decent-looking and well educated with a regular job. I have tried talking to them when I see them at the supermarket and at the coffeeshops, etc. But, they never want to get to know me.

When I die

tofurkey's picture

So I got some information in the mail yesterday in regards to my life insurance.

And of course, my brain won't shut off and I start thinking about a million things.

One of those things being, when I die, I don't want SD at my funural. Seriously.

This situation has brought nothing but stress and issues to my life. I swear if my husband brought her to my funural I would come back from the dead to haunt his ass haha.

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