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SIL bringing up BM

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Do any of you guys ever deal with your SO/Dh/Dw etc family constantly brining up BM? SIL always seems to talk about "oh well when BM and DH were together blah blah blah." and it's so irritating. I could care less to hear about when they were together or what happened. She's always done it but I guess now that I'm pregnant and hormonal it really is starting to bother me. I dont want to seem petty by saying something but at the same time I get so bothered. It's not like SIL even likes BM, she can't stand her, she just refers to her a lot. ugh...

just an update

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Haven't posted in a while so I thought I would since something funny has/has been happeneing. We broke the news to FMIL about the pregnancy and all of a sudden instead of waring with FDH and I, she's trying to be respectful and nice. She's even sent me food. It's so stupid. I wonder if she realized that she can't go around FDH when this kid is born to try to see him/her. To top it off, she actually had the nerve to ask if SHE can attend the first doctors appt FDH and I have on Monday.

News

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A few days ago I posted about being upset about things with FMIL and BM and it turns out that although my frustrations are valid, it turns there is a reason I was SO emotional. I am pregnant. Probably about 5 weeks right now. FDH have moved our wedding up from September to next month. Wow. This explains how emotional I've been... Just thought I'd share. Smile

I just feel so sad :(

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Since all the drama that happened this weekend I can't help but feel so so sad about the whole situation. I am supposed to be starting my period soon also so maybe these heightend emotions are because of that too but have you ever felt like everyone on your SO's side is starting to dislike you because you're SO is setting boundaries? I feel like everyone thinks I'm just a bitch and that I'm the one making FDH set boundaries... and I guess in a sense I am.

BM calls again demanding and such...

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The Dram-dram begins... Bm called FDH today on his work phone. This phone is for contractors to contact him and so there are always random numbers calling. BM has this number from a long time ago when he was issued the phone from his company. FDH doesn't recognize it's she-devil so he answers. Immediately she starts yelling at him for not calling her back in regards to her VM she left him, telling him that he needed to bring Fss home early for Easter. Why FDH didn't say "is this an emergency?" and hang up, I dont know.

the beast is demanding Fss home early on Easter... WTF

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BM just called FDH and left him a voicemail (I think she's finally getting the point that when she calls there will be no answer since she decided to leave a VM) demanding that FDH bring Fss home early on Sunday because her family is having a party and she claims FDH had him last year.... Does this bitch not realize she is the one who had him last year?? We took Fss home early last year which is why we didn't get him an easter basket. This is the only reason I remember this because I wanted to get him something and FDH just said to get him some candy because he had to be home early...

wth

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I tried posting this blog before but for some reason it isn't posting so thanks to cactus pete's advice I'm going to just post the rest in the comment below... Thanks Cactus Pete!

Something fss said

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This weekend we had a bbq and so FDH, Fss and I go to the mexican meat market to get some chicken to cook. We frequent this market and whenever we are they Fss will constantly ask me "How do you say this in spanish msg1986?" and I'll tell him and it's always a fun experience. Well this time I noticed while we were walking around Fss wasn't asking those questions, which I didn't mind. I usually only answer him when he asks.

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