I know Ss is only 5 but I've been thinking (fantasizing!! ha!) about how nice it'll be once he turns 18 (in my state child support ends at 18) and Bm is out of our life... I know I know, she'll always be around however it'll be WAY different... I hope? I know I've read of some ladie'ss & gent's here that have skids over 18, and I know once skids are adults other bigger issues can ensue but I'm just curious if things really change after Bm is removed from the equation or if that really happens...

So Dh called Bm's mom house to ask Bm's mother if Bm has said anything about not letting him pick up Ss5, he wanted to call her first before he text Bm(Bm lives with her mom and Bm's mom is pretty much does most of the child rearing for BM). Bm's mom says Bm didn't say anything to her and that Ss5 is home because it's fall break and gives the phone to Ss5, Ss immediately starts asking when Dh is going to pick him up and Dh tells him he doesn't know if he'll be able to pick him up today because Bm said he couldn't see him.

So today Dh sees he has 2 missed calls from Bm about 5 minutes after she calls. Dh texts her and asks her what she wanted. Bm texts him back and says she was calling because she was going to pick up Ss from our house. This was around 1pm. On Friday Bm told Dh she needed to meet Dh early at 3 to do the exchange because she had plans. Anyway, Bm then tells Dh that because he didn't answer that he has to take Ss back to her house in another city which is like 45 minutes away.

So Ss5 just started school a few weeks ago and so far he's gotten in trouble/had issues every week. First week of school he got in trouble for cutting up his own shirt and not listening, 2nd week he was having issues being bullied and was smacked in the face by another kid, 3rd week he pushed a kid off the balance beam and had his recesses pulled for 2 days, and just this week he got in trouble on the bus for sticking his head out of the window/running up and down the isle.