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Oh, and she has money for drugs too

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Tue, 07/09/2013 - 4:49pm

Her post (paraphrasing): I only get high when I've had too many lows ... and pretty much any other time of the day.

Yes, SD20 is unemployed (got fired) but has money to out of STATE to get drunk every weekend. Now let's add get high to the list. I know about marijuana (she freely admits), probably cocaine (boyfriend posted a picture), God knows what else.

Suppressing twinge of pride here (sarcasm).

You're out of work, but you have money to go out drinking every weekend

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Mon, 07/08/2013 - 8:44am

SD20 is just jumping on my last good nerve. I'm really close to hating her. I'm sorry, I can't help it.

So she overdraws her account, DH gets the notice and texts her, she cries to daddy about how she lost her job. OK, she got fired for bad attitude toward boss, co-workers, customers, pretty much everybody. She should have been fired a lot sooner than she was.

DH and SD20 are so co-dependent!

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Tue, 07/02/2013 - 9:42am

I really hate this whole stinking mess. I tell everyone I meet NOT to marry a guy with kids. It's just not worth it. It's not.

My BD7 likes to get the mail. There was something in there addressed to SD20, even though she's never lived with us. BD7 wanted to know if it could possibly be something FROM SD20. BD7 did not hear from her on her birthday last month, she doesn't call and talk to them, text them, nothing. They feel very overlooked. And it makes me feel like crap FOR BD7.

Please tell me if I am wrong here. Be honest

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Wed, 06/26/2013 - 12:12pm

Dh has a job with a weird schedule. He is off Friday and Sunday, so the only day we have together as a family is Sunday (I work and kids are in daycare). He hasn't been able to get any weekends off to do anything with us, in fact soonest he can get a weekend off is September, when summer is over and kids are back at school.

Distinguishing the truth from the lies

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Mon, 06/03/2013 - 11:27am

DH lied to me about lying. Big surprise. I have been distant to him ever since I saw the email to SD20 that was identical to what he sent to me. He has been more affectionate to overcome my distance, but it's not working.

Last night I confronted him that I knew he was lying and he denied it. Then he said he didn't send that same message to SD20 on the same day he sent it to me. Splitting hairs much? So, SD20 is indeed coming for a visit, although he didn't say when. He said she will be staying at a hotel.

DH lied to me, again

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Fri, 05/31/2013 - 11:34am

DH sent me a weird text about "coming down" to see him. It didn't make sense. So I responded that maybe he meant it for somebody else? He said no, he meant when am I "coming down" to have lunch with him at work. Still didn't make sense because I work also and I wouldn't be "coming down" to see him and we'd never discussed this previously but I let it go.

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