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Defensive Dad
Teenage Stepchildren I am looking for any advice that can be given to me as my relationship is suffering. I am a 30 year old female in a 2 year relationship with a 33 year old male who has majority custody of his 16 year old daughter. We have lived togeth ...
Not sure how to handle Skids gorging on junk food
Blended Family Issues My Skids come over and they eat bit of junk food we have in the house. The probably is DH doesn't pay attention when they sneak into the kitchen and help themselves. And I don't mind that they have some of it but SD12 will ...
Officially labeling him "Disney Dad"
I always knew my SO spoiled his kid rotten. The kid (3) gets whatever he wants, when he wants. SO gives him cookies and chips whenever the kid says he's hungry, which is all the time. They get home in the evening and the kid says "I'm hungr ...
My Step Son and Porn
This boy I just don't get he has been grounded many times watching porn in the last 7 months! Just moments ago I jsut went into the kitchen to get my kool aid for the nite and he's in the kitchen on the computor watching this mess! The boy ain&# ...
SD did NOT make the team!
It wasn't our weekend to have SD so DH text her to see if she made the team. He also tried calling her. SD ignored both so I assumed she did not make the team and was pouting about it. I was right. BM texted DH to let him know that SD did not mak ...
OT- Eff Off/Forn Friday
STalkers, welcome to Friday! I took today off from work for a 4-day weekend. The weather is cooperating right now (sunny and 57°) so DH and I are about to head outside to do some work. Eff off to: Cancer. Gaaaaaaaahhhhhhh!!! Alzheimers and Dementia. One o ...
Extra's
General Discussion What do you all do extra wise for the Skids? When is it to the point you can tell BM step it up!!! SD13 just text and said that they have no food at BM house and she is hungry, she does this every once in awhile. And its not that they d ...
All WAS Good until NOW- HELP LADIES!!!!
General Discussion my bubble was bursted. Last night my BH called me on my cell phone, I was working and on my way home to tell me that he had talked to his sister about how my 18yo SD went freaking nuts and thought she could whip my tail. He said that hi ...
How not to engage with adult stepkids?
Adult Stepchildren Hi I'm completely new to posting here, but have been reading for a while. In three months Im going to marry a man with two "adult" children. One son, 23, one daughter, 18. I also have two children, two daughters (15 and 1 ...
Guilt Parenting 2.0-Help!
General Discussion Any advice on how to deal with the Guilt-Parenting when the SKID visits. I had a handle on it for most part. Pseudo-SS9 shows up, DH goes into his "trance" where he thinks whole world is to cater to this kid. It's almost ...