I'm so desperate to get my thoughts out that I can't help myself from posting here because I know so many of you will at least understand where I'm coming from. I vowed not to post again, not so much because of privacy, but because I don't want DH coming around to cause drama, but I feel so weak right now.

This is so sad, but god, you can't help but laugh. A cat misses the time portal opening:

http://i.imgur.com/EcGYq.gif

I haven't been a member here for very long and I really haven't posted much about the things I have to deal with on a daily basis. But I have come to a point in my life were I could really use some suggestions on what to do. I am the type of person who lets everything build up inside until I can't take it any longer and I feel as though I am at my breaking point.

How can BM make up lies and say that BD hurt his daughter on purpose. Since BM dad is a cop they have handled it like he was a criminal from the begining. I am confused know why the charges can't be dropped but instead they are using them against him in order for her to gain full custody from a 50/50 situation.

Can anyone tell me what this means. It was updated today on our court records. The attorney filed
SUBMISSION REGARDING PROGRAM FOR LITIGANTS IN FAMILY COURT!!!

Please help...

SS12 lost his cell phone and BM found it a week later when she was folding his laundry. Too funny. The cell phone went through the washer and dryer...hehehe.

SS12 did even care he had lost it, I think he was relieved since BM calls him all the time any way.

Glad it happened to BM. BM would have been on the war path if it had happened on our watch.

~BettyRay

FH and I have a good relationship. We get along, we laugh, we have sexual chemistry, etc. He is good to me. There isn't much more that I can ask for...
Except this-I hate that everyday he texts/calls BM. Usually call is 3 minutes max. Sometimes its more than once a day, but not often. Or he will text. Never both. I get frustrated because he is always the one initiating.
I know it seems small. But she has done ALOT to me over the years. Completely disregarded my existence. And I have tried to maintain because I don't want the children caught in all this mess.

So recently my BF asked BM about a new guy who has been hanging around. This guy has been with her to pick up SD1 three times in a row. BM said that he is "just a friend and that she feels bad cause he doesn't have a lot of other friends and she was trying to get rid of him." Last night when they came to pick up SD1 BM whispered something to him, his reply was "Its up to you how much you say." Then she says that he is looking at buying a house and apparently there are rentable rooms in the house where she is intending on moving to.

When BM picks up SD on Sunday after the week long custody DH has, inevitably, a barrage of calls and texts begin about why A, B, and C did or did not happen.

Does the BM in your life interrogate your Skid when transfer of custody takes place?

And a friend of mine says the BM is going around showing everybody this text from FH to HER saying "love you".

I got furious. I explained to this friend how the skids sent the text. I had to help them find her number in FH's phone so that they could send her a text. I didn't know what they sent until a couple days ago. Although, I'm sure my friend believes me - others won't.