cmore's picture

Cannot stand to even look at my stepson

My 16yr old stepson treats my wife like crap, she will ask him to do something like pick up his clothes and he will not do it until he damn well feels like it. He swears at her, gets high all the time but is an athlete? I have confronted him about talking to his mom like that and he physically assualted me. Now I cannot stand to be in the same room with him.

BunnyBread's picture

He assaulted you??? Sounds

He assaulted you???

Sounds like the little deviant belongs in juvie. Call the cops on him. You and your wife should never allow abuse like that in YOUR HOME.

"Every little decision becomes a weird internal battle when you're a stepparent because you're afraid that doing the slightest thing wrong will erupt in catastrophe like a zit on Satan's ass." -'s "5 Pitfalls Faced by Every New Stepparent"

imaSmom's picture

In my opinion, if this is how

In my opinion, if this is how your wife raised her son to be, then she is just as much responsible for his nasty ignorant behavior as his father and her son is. Any child, especially sons, who disrespect their mothers that way don't respect women and are on the right path to becoming domestic abuses. Skip juvi, he needs his ass kicked by a woman, namely his mother. Sometimes kids need a jolt of raw female aggression to snap them back in line.

The freedom, the strength, the will to do as I damn well please.

Orange County Ca's picture

Assault is the threat to do

Assault is the threat to do bodily harm with the ability to carry it out. Did he assult you or batter? Batter being the physical striking.

Either way you can file a police report. If he battered you then I would have called the police on the spot. Tell the police you wish them to send someone to talk to the boy. Preferably at school.

He may be an athlete but he's a user and this is the underlying problem. My first step would be to prove that to his mother and hope she's mother enough to get the help this boy needs.


I've observed humans for 70 years and dogs for 10. I prefer the dogs.

CSA's picture

I have to say if you LET him

I have to say if you LET him assualt you he will continue to assualt you.

Call the police, and send him to juvi.