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mommadukes2015's picture

So this past weekend BM's mom GBM came to visit (she lives about 10 hours away). We are in regular contact with GBM who LOVES SS to pieces. He's her favorite grandchild and while I'm all anti-favorites, I'm glad for once he gets special treatment (I can't give it to him, I have to raise him).

Anywho, BM asks to pick up SS on Saturday. I wasn't home, I forget where I went...probably the grocery store, but SS was gone from Saturday until Tuesday.

On Monday I get a call from GBM asking if we are comfortable with SS going to BM's apartment in Drug City (obvi it's not called that but it might as well be)-she tells me BM is on her sh*t list as it is and she's not very happy with her. I give the phone to SO (not my monkey-I want no part of this circus-I just want to hear about it) who says, we don't know where she has been this last year, I've heard about what she's been doing and I don't know this guy, so I would prefer SS doesn't go down there.

It is important to note that BM has seen SS for a total of 4 hours since January of this year. SO and I have been advised by BM's own sister, that where BM is living is not a good place and not to let SS go there. Instead, Aunt BM has been taking SS for visits, and BM hap-hazardly shows up. This has been a non-issue until now.

Anyway, following this conversation SO gets a text from BM about why he said no. Simultaneously he is getting texts from GBM telling him not to give into BM's fit "no matter what".

GBM calls me again to let me know that Saturday BM picked up SS, hung out for 3 hours, then left with SS's younger BM brother and BM sister, with no explanation. Now this happened before the discussion of "No Drug City" even came up-in fact, this odd behavior is what made her think she should ask us before sending him off in the first place.

Drug City has never been discussed between SO and BM-so it's kind of odd she just left SS before hand. SO and BM's relationship is pretty straight forward and to date, there have been no large power struggles between the two of them. So it was kind of odd she'd take the other two and leave SS-which of course really really upset him. (If BM had left SS AFTER the conversation about No Drug City, and SS had to watch his younger siblings go with her while he stayed behind, I would want SO to think more about going to see her place, because SS never sees her as it is, to be just left behind like that-had to hurt).

Apperently, the only time she saw SS out of the entire 4 days span was those 3 hours. When we picked SS up yesterday to go see fireworks, all he could talk about is how he didn't see his mom hardly at all.

This morning she uploads pictures of her, SS, SS's younger siblings and some really rough looking dude with a status saying "I was so busy having so much fun this weekend, and my phone was dead, so these are the only pictures I managed to get."

WHO DO YOU THINK YOUR ARE FOOLING? Ugh.

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moving_on_again's picture

They really don't think that people catch on to their dumbassery. I'm glad she didn't take SS to Drug City despite the fact that it was pointless for her to just take him to drop him off at her mom's. I really hate these women.

Acratopotes's picture

I would've replied - where did you have fun cause you left the children with XX and your oldest son only saw you 3 hours out of 4 days?