I live with SS 16 fulltime for almost 4 years now. I tried to spark up our conversations, tried to cook something he likes, helped with homeworks, be present in parent conference to support him.

I am really tired of living with him. It was supposed to be two years to live with him and he goes to his bio-mom, but he didn't want to live with his own mom. So I ended up with him.

In the last 4 years, there were many incidents that eventually build up a wall between us. I am not getting into the details of those incidents, but I started to pull myself and do less and less for SS.

Now he is 16 and trying to get a job, but he is sooooooo lazy. I only see him in laying on his bed all the time. He doesn't go outside other than to school or hang out with his friends. On Sunday afternoon, I cannot bare to stay in the same house,(My husband is at work), I had to come to food court just to get outside.

Because of my husband's work, we had to move often. I know its good for him to stay in the school he is at now and graduate here rather than going back to his mom.
But can I do another 2 years? I am telling myself, it's just two more years and he is out, but I can only see the next two years, we just live like college roommate. We have dinner together but we do not talk. I know it is not healthy situation, but I simply cannot bring myself even to ask how his day was.

I only cook dinner for him because on weekends he doesn't get up till afternoons. I asked him numerous time to say "ok" or "I am coming" or something at all, when I call him for dinner. He continuously ingores my request. I talked to my husband. He says I take care of it, but he goes to his room to get him so that SS doesn't have to respond to me at all. I feel like its defeating a whole purpose to ask him to say something when he is called.

I really don't want anything to do with him anymore.