Blended Family / Step Son Has a school event coming up and only wants Bio Mom and Bio Dad to go to
Blended Family / Step Son Has a school event coming up and ONLY wants Bio Mom and Bio Dad to go to. I have a problem with this...
Just the 1st one. After the 1st one he said everyone can go (Step mom, step dad... step brothers and sisters). He is 12. Bio Dad asked why he is requesting this and he has no answer. Both his dad and I (Step mom) feel this is a request from pressure from his Bio mom.
Bio mom has never and refuses to meet me. Has all these crazy rules with the kids only being able to be alone with me for 2 hours even thought with the court it right to refuse is 4 hours. The kids are not allowed to go to the store with me alone without my husband. I'm not allowed to take them to school or pick or drop them off to her. I have tried saying hello to her and she just ignores me or has actually told me not to speak.
Which is what it is. It causes stress with the kids and all of us.
My thoughts are that we should not let a 12 year old dictate life. I don't want him overthinking mom and dad back together again. I think we all Both families should go to these events for the kids to show our love and support. Bio mom is saying it is forcing step mom in his life. Which is not right or fair to anyone. I am step mom I should be there to support my step children in their activities along side my husband.