Work away from home, ignored out aside when home.
As my name suggest I am a truck driver. I am out 4 weeks and home 5 days. Occasionally I get through for a night here and there between hometime.
I have been with my fiance for nearly 3 years. We used to fall asleep on the phone at night together since I travel all 48 states. She would text fairly often through day, post and react to social media. She maybe let her d sleep in her bed once every few months. Would allow for date nights and her d even encouraged them. We used to do all things together from going to store to me never missing a soccer practice or game if I was home. (Fiance plays adult leagues and her D is in club soccer)
She was living with her parents, and than this may we got our place together. It has just turned into a lonely, draining and seems just forgotten relationship. I feel like a glorified roommate.
I am the main household income, when I am home I pitch in on choirs etc. While my fiance makes a little from working from home but not much other than covering her phone and car insurance.
When I am gone her D sleeps in our bed with her, when I am home I am lucky if my fiance sleeps in our bed and not on the couch having a movie night with her d. Phone calls are short, few texts and no social media.
Not asked anymore about doing grocery shopping, soccer practices and such yet am almost not invited.
Her D constantly gives attitude now, rude and disrespectful to me. Last night I had my hand on my fiance's knee and her D pushed my hand away from her mom.
We were planning to go camping this weekend, but was cancelled due to weather. So we decided to pitch the tent in the living room. Her daughter set it up and put my fiance's pillow on one side and nine on other side with her own in the middle.
By the second or third day of hometime other than first time I had it since we have moved in together I am ready to hit the road knowing at least I can justify feeling neglected, lonely etc because I am on the road and focus on work.
This year we have had intamate alone time maybe 4 times (I only recall 3 but maybe a fourth)
I feel lost, lonely and forgotten. I love them with all my heart but even after talking about this it seems she doesnt have the will anymore to put time into us and is letting her daughter control her time.