Just had a touchy discussion with dh.
Here's what happened. Lots of snow, I went out yesterday and shoved the whole driveway with some of my kids. Yes, it took a few hours because it is very long. As the snow was icy, the driveway was not clean, and there were some ruts, but we were fried.
Now I knew that when dh arrived in the evening, he would re shovel it to his liking. Sure enough, I had to keep dinner waiting a half hour as he re shoveled it..........wiped clean right to the pavement. My immediate reaction was that I was annoyed. I busted my butt and he has to do it over. HE is annoyed that I am annoyed......sees that I am not appreciative of his efforts. And yes......he does everything, but underlying that is a control issue I feel..
Was I wrong to see it and get annoyed?