My vacation is going to be just that.
my sister and I rent a beach house for a week the past few years along with our mother. My adult kids join us and my sister’s friends have come for a few days as well. So tonight DH says he wants to invite his adult daughters! Oh no. My immediate thought was a repeat of the weekend recently spent. His daughter stuck like glue to him and well that is NOT for that week!
Of course I impulsively revealed too much of my thoughts, including that they still block me on FB after 10 yrs. stupid me. I never should have mentioned that because DH laughed at me and said I need to grow up. Seriously though they are NOT being invited. They are in their mid to late 20’s and there is no reason why they need to be there. Neither one has ever met my parents or sister. Quite frankly my mother could not be trusted not to tell them off for all the crap over the years.
Thoughts? Truly I want it to be MY week. My family lives thousands miles away and for once. THIS IS ABOUT ME. I am prepared to tell DH he can take his kids to a beach house and I would even go, but this week is my time with my family. And no they are not a part of it. We can work towards that but not now.