I KNEW IT WAS TOO GOOD TO LAST
So his granddaughter who dates the guy next door comes over, walks in the door, ask "where's the old man" and heads down to the rec room.She stays maybe 2 mins and leave and doesn't even say goodbye.I go down and ask my H whats up with that.He says"She came to invite ME over( next door) for wings" "I said and I'm not invited?" No, because his D is going" It wasn't but a few months ago that SD was running these people down and reporting them to the township because their yard is a mess..and now she's over there taking wings to them..talk about two-faced.So I tell my H to go if he feels good about it, but if it were me I would say.."sorry if my wife isn't invited, I won't be coming" So, he gets all bent out of shape and blames me for not forgiving his D for calling me a physco,pushing me and calling the police on me to have me thrown out of her fathers house. I say" has she ever apoligised to me?"..no answer..All my fault again.Then his D has the nerve to call here and ask her father if he's coming..I am shaking, I am so annoyed and upset.I'm upset with him, his grandadughter, his daughter and the neighbours..I just sent a box of my clothes over this morning because they are on welfare adn I try to help out when I can...H shakes his fist in anger at me and says " another day in paradise" He says he is not allowed to have any friends( he's with them almost everyday and I say nothing)..he loves to over exagerate..so off he goes.I tell him if I end up back at the shelter over this crap again I will NOT be coming back.Tomorrow I am having a birthday party for my daughter, granddaughter and son in law and now I don't want him here..what should I do..can't stop shaking and cry..am I over reacting?