Here is another scenario I found, what is everyone's thoughts?
I saw this posted on a social media site "My new husband and I have only been married for two months. We are both Christians and try to live by the word of God. He is my soulmate. The problem is his two daughters. One 16 and one almost 21. They are very rude and disrespectful. Up until we got married. We got along relatively well. But it seems like as soon as I moved in, it has gotten terrible. They lie on me. They are up cooking at 11:00-12:00 in the morning. The 17 year old puts the phone on speaker and talk bad about me so I can hear it. She just yelled at me and called me a liar. Something that she later found out she was mistaken. She said she doesn’t have to listen or respect me. The 21 moved out but still comes over and causes problems. Just last week she blocked the driveway so I couldn’t get in and I had to walk all the way to the house with a sprain ankle and a boot on. She even had the nerve to complain about me being in my bedroom too much. And what is making me mad is that my husband said he understands why she parked there but he told her not to do it again. He understands why she is disrespectful but he told her not to be. He has not once made them apologize. I asked him to tell the oldest one NOT to come over when he is gone to work. Every third day he is gone for work. He cannot even agree to to that. And please know that each time he is at work is when something happens and I have not said one word to them because I know if will be on and poppin if I do. I love my husband but I cannot live in a situation like this. Last night I went back to my townhouse because I was at my wits end. I do regret moving into his house, but I do not regret marrying him. Any advice would be helpful."
One of the most extreme comments to this said "First off... that's their house way before you moved in. If my dad was to move his new wife into our home and the new wife tried to put "new" rules... that would not fly over very well.
If you wanna be the rule maker of the house, move your husband into your townhouse."
The person who made that comment also said "Some folks wanna move on with their lives with little to zero regard to have the kids feel. The stepmom sounds like she's in competition with his daughters and wants the husband to choose her side. She sounds bossy and her husband is obviously passive and his daughters are giving her a run for her money. Lol."
What are everyone's thoughts on this scenario?