Divorce after 30 years
I have not written in avery long time but want you all to know that I am finally divorcing my husband of 30 years. And I am SO glad that I finally found the courage to do it.
If you are not cherished, if you do not get the affection and caring that you deserve, ask yourself if this relationship is right for you - no matter how long you've been in it. You are worthy of being loved and cared about. If you constantly having to adjust your expectations so you avoid divorcing someone who does not appreciate your worth, you are playing a very dangerous game with yourself. I did for 30 years and went through hell. Finally, with therapy, I have learned to love myself.
Several times I have read that children are a responsibility, but the marraige is top priority. If this is not the case, don't waste one more minute of your time on someone who does not believe this.
First and foremost be kind to yourself. Looking forward to a happier life. Love you all, Sandye