Let give some background I have raised him since he was 18 months old his real dad didn't give a crap about him until it came time for taxes each year at ten he started having issues from starting fires to hurting animals and fighting in school even an accusation of molestation on a young child yes we had him in conseling and meds he was diagnosed bi polar with or with out meds he has no empathy or guilt he is a habitual liar and a thief my wife is disabled and he steals her Paul meds on a regular basis and sells them age doesn't take them then he has the guts to ask for them to see because we secured them outside of the house and he gets mad at her he won't get a job he would rather con everybody into giving him money .About two months ago we made my ss move out he's 19 because the sheriffs office came to door about someone shooting at a house at that point I had enough he admitted to his mom it was him and she went as far as helping him and his friend repaint truck so it wouldn't be recognized. Well about four weeks later our house was broken into and only stuff that belonged to me was taken my wife told the police it was probably her son well it turned out he pawned everything under his own name we got most of it back and I still want to press charges but her whole family says its unfair because he will be branded for life. To me it was his choice he has ro live with consequences but now I'm the bad guy for doing this I love my wife and daughter but I feel some need to take a stand before he hurts someone or gets killed himself. But am I wrong?