Family consultant. The court appointed it. We went into the office and she watched my partner and I with the children, then the mother and the children together. Then interviewed us all separately.
Anyone who was awake for middle school science knows that just the act of observation impacts behaviors of those being observed. Watching people when they know they are being watched in a place that they know specificially is where they will be watched is such a waste of time and yet another bullshit activity by the courts and the "behavioral" experts to interfere in people's lives. If you want to observe how people truly behave, have the evaluator show up as a long lost aunt and join the family for a week. Or.... load the house up with web cams for the week and watch.
Who is making this assessment
Who is making this assessment? Do you mean custody evaluator?
If you don't mind me asking?
Family consultant. The court
Family consultant. The court appointed it. We went into the office and she watched my partner and I with the children, then the mother and the children together. Then interviewed us all separately.
Anyone who was awake for
Anyone who was awake for middle school science knows that just the act of observation impacts behaviors of those being observed. Watching people when they know they are being watched in a place that they know specificially is where they will be watched is such a waste of time and yet another bullshit activity by the courts and the "behavioral" experts to interfere in people's lives. If you want to observe how people truly behave, have the evaluator show up as a long lost aunt and join the family for a week. Or.... load the house up with web cams for the week and watch.
In my layman's opinion of course.