Why do so many SParents struggle with the blatantly obvious?
We see it over and over again, Year after year.
Should I, we, my SO, do the obvious thing that is so blatant that the question is a waste of key strokes?
So many are blind to the obvious.
Why is that?
We see it with absolute clarity when others do it. Why can't we see what is no less obvious in our own experiences?
We do not need permission or for someone to tell us what do do, what the right thing to do is, we just need the spine and self awareness to make the decision and take the action. While doing nothing is always an option, doing nothing changes nothing. What needs to happen just about universally in so many blended family relationships is change.
IMHO of course.