:jawdrop: so on what grounds do mothers loose custody? Is it OK to impede visitation by in front of the police refusing to send your child for visitation? How about if the mom does the 12 yr olds home work causing her to fail school? No food in the house? Permissive parenting? Mom sends child to spy on dad and his family take pictures of inside their home and then post on Facebook. How about the older pot smoking brother who is constantly getting high. And can't forget the older sister who is a stripper and pole dancer with lots of Facebook pictures and the 12 yr old is Facebook friends and lives with her. Shall I go on