SS13 “Policing” others but not himself
Since a young age or 6 or 7 SS13 SS13 has a clear understanding of rules and right from wrong. SS13's teachers have complained through the years that SS13 "police's" other kids regarding "school rules". If SS13 sees some kid cut in line, break a class rule etc SS13 has no problem calling the kid out. The bigger problem is SS13 has no problem breaking the class rules himself if it suits him and does this Frequently.
SS13 also does this at our house also. More with me than DH. If I happen to leave a cereal bowl in the living room SS13 is all over me to bring it out to the sink BUT SS13 almost NEVER brings his dishes to the sink.
Now SS13 also has no problem doing bigger issues like lying and stealing(school and our house).
How can a kid Appear to be so righteous and making sure everyone else follows the "rules" BUT refuses to do the same himself?