Should we move out of state?
I have a 10year old SS AND A 15year old SD. My husband and I have been married for 6 years and love in Louisiana.. The current visitation is one weeknight, and every other weekend Thursday to Monday. During the summer the children stay with us and see their mother every other weekend. The holidays are split. We have lived in a small town for years because my dh wanted to be there for his children and be involved in all their activities. We have always planned on loving once SS gets older. He now may have the opportunity to move to Maryland. At first we weren’t considering it but my Sd has expressed that she doesn’t want that custody schedule anymore and would like to come as she wants. So the hardest part would be to leave SS. He adores his father and is as sweet as can be. If we do leave what kind of custody arrangement do people in this type situation have? My dh is afraid that if we leave bm will poison the children against him and that their relationship will not be the same. We also just had a baby and the idea of leaving and never having to deal w bm sounds so amazing!