me and dp's relationship has been full of problems, in the past hes lied, almost cheated etc. things have been good for a while but in november last year i discovered he had been recieving love letters so on so forth off a mutual friend who was coming to the house etc etc, both while we were 'on a break' and after it. She continued doing things up until april this year (when I moved back in) suggesting jobs for him that would involve them spending the weekend together.... etc.
It all (so i thought) stopped then, he without me asking deleted her off facebook, and he has told me they havent spoken since on a few occasions... aparently not.
Last night when I asked him he quickly changed that to say they had text once.... then it was once or twice. I was a bit miffed off about it, even more so when he told me he'd told her the reason hed deleted her is 'because it's easier that way' to me that gives her the impression i'd nagged him about it (which i hadnt) but I was secretly quite relieved that he had taken her off, it made me feel a lot more secure in our relationship that he wasnt gonna let anyone else interfere.
two things i need to make clear before you answer a) i do trust my dp, i just know how manipulating this woman was (aparently i was stalking her on a forum - she told my dp this so i left the forum completely even tho i wasnt), she was playing us off each other when i knew nothing about the letters, she also straight faced lied to me about the letters, and if she has to be around, ok I guess, its the fact hes hidden it from me i have major issues with. I'm a born worrier!
Loops.