Just don’t know if I’m right or wrong
I just truly feel like my feelings are not considered at all when it comes to my DH and SD situation. I have told my husband on several occasions that dealing with SD gives me anxiety because their is no structure and just anything goes when she comes. SD is 13 with mental issues and defiance issues. Most of the time she has to be made to do any work and gets an attitude when you correct anything she does. Now, I asked that we take a spring break trip without her. I just wanted it to be me, DH, and our twins. He said ok. Now once this virus hit everything slowly got canceled. We were suppose to have her the weekend before break, drop her off Wednesday and that was it. Now since we didn't go, he kept her the whole week and won't take her home! I'm so sick of this! Just because your comfortable with this doesn't mean I am. I just hate we don't even discuss this stuff. He makes these discussion in his mind or with BM and I'm just suppose to go along with it. With all that's going on all this just gives e more anxiety and I don't know how to explain to DH that I feel trapped in my house when SD is here and I don't need this right now.
Maybe I'm selfish..... I just feel like my feelings and want I would like doesn't get consider.