To sum this up my partner absolutely adores his little girl so much that she can do no wrong (even when to me she can be intolerable). She has an attitude, she kicks off over everything when it doesn't go her way. We've had discussions as he works away monday to friday so i only see him at the weekends (he has his daughter every other weekend but kept having her every weekend) so i said im not willing to sit at home all week every night (i do work during the day) and keep a roof over our head to not actually spend any time with him. I have a 5 year old who may not be perfect but her behaviour couldn't get much better. Obviously with the whole virus situation, i was on edge about his daughter coming as she has a constant cough which makes her sick, and although its not a new cough i felt uncomfortable. My partner said 'her cough is fine, and her mum has said she wouldn't send her if it was any risk to my daughter' which has turned out to be utter rubbish. Im now furious that she has put my daughter at risk, and that my partner has let her do it by taking her word for it just because he wants to see his daughter (understandable under normal circumstances). She woke up today being sick from her cough which is 'nothing'. I told my partner that i've felt uncomfortable all weekend in my own house, to which he's argued that it's also her home too, yet my daughters dad has my daughter the same amount and we don't consider his house her home. And by home i mean primary residence. I can't even keep my child safe in our own home, and i now feel like us staying in all week has been for nothing.