When my fiance & I decided to move in together, it seemed like the best thing for all of us (me, him & his 3 children). I had lived 45 mins from them & took the journey every weekend for the past 1 1/2 years until the move this past weekend. My fiance & I discssed it with his children so many months ago to help them get used to the idea of living as a family. EVERYONE seemed happy with the idea & the children also helped us pick out where we were going to live. If it's not stressful enough packing & moving, the day before the actual move, my SS(10) became very unhappy & tears began falling. He said he did not want to move & was very confused about his feelings concerning the move. For the past 3 1/2 years, my fiance & his children have lived with his mother, who has helped raise them during this time since his ex-wife has basically abandoned the children. My SS said he liked living in his present home. After my fiance consoled him, he seemed to be feeling better. That was until I was putting him to bed that night & he again broke down in tears, stating the same thing he had said earlier. It broke my heart as I sat there talking to him about what he was feeling. He is a very senstitive child & it is obvious he has a hard time with change, but I just don't know what to do to make him feel better about the situation. HELP.... I need some advice on how to help him adjust to this life changing event. I know that last time he had to move was when his parents divorced & his mom left them, so I am sure this has something to do with his emotions now. I just want my SS to feel safe, secure, comfortable & loved while he is dealing with this adjustment. Any advice is greatly appreciated!