FSS17 bullying my BD5
I need some serious help! My FSS17 is constantly antagonizing my BD5 every chance he gets. When I call him out on it, he hollers hows it's not fair that she always gets her way and goes stomping to his room or slams the door on his way out. All the while cussing at me and acting as though he gets nothing! My FDH backs his BS when he acts like this because his BS is the youngest of his 2 and has always been handed EVERYTHING. So when me and my BD5 came along we 'took away' from his BS17 spending and extra curricular activities, i.e.- $500 trips to the mall whenever he wanted, brand name EVERYTHING. Trips to atlantic city, new guns for hunting, etc. etc. the list goes on. I feel that I HAVE to protect my BD5 who really doesn't do much to antagonize and stand up for her. She is being bullied by a 17 year old!!!!!! In turn, i get my a** reamed for what FDH does for me and my BD and his BS17 has taken a back seat. I understand his BS frustration, but my BD didn't ask for what has been done for her. We are only 9 months into this relationship, 5 months seriously, and live together. I feel like I can't plan an escape route because I made a huge move to be here and my BD5 just started her kindergarten year here and I do not want to yank her out of school. PLEASE help! :?