On the fence on misinformation.
My DW has a younger cousin. A very beautiful young woman, three all oowl kids by two baby daddies. Daddy #2 left her a year ago wham their youngest of 2 was about 2yo. #1 is by a different baby daddy.
This young woman is very all about being an empowered mommy victimized by men. She is also the niece of DW's unicorn cousin who passed after a long battle with cancer about 2yrs ago.
The crux of my issue is that she is exceptionally heavy and a master at photo shop and contouring makeup techniques. She gets dates on dating apps then when she shows up for the date and does not appear as marketed, the men do not enagage for a second date. She then goes all butt hurt sobbing men are evil sympathy trolling anywhere she can get hooks into the "but you're so beautiful, those guys suck," crowd. No one ever tells her the truth.
She is lying to these guys before she ever actually meets them and expects them to continue to see hers as she photoshopped herself to be.
To me the sad thing is she is smart. She was on her way to a BSN and decided she wanted to go the sugar baby/daddy route, got a dental assistant AS, and keeps thinking that labor types are her sugar daddy candidates after not being able to hook a dentist.
I struggle with her victimizing guys that can't possibly meet her sugar daddy expectations and I struggle worse with her victimizing her own children. While cintto market herself as someone she isn't.
DW is ultra quiet about it all. As a former single teen mom who has made a career, life, and solid marriage she is both irritated by this young woman and trying to be emotionally supportive. I have to tread lightly in related discussions.