BM overstepping and MIL never ending BS
So my DH gets a call from his mom telling him that she will buy tickets to an event that SD wanted to go to. Ok normally this would be fine. Except the event is one that the BM called to tell my SD about and 2 SD was told it's too expensive and I know for a fact the the BM told MIL this and she offered to buy us the tickets.
UMMMM How is it the BM's place to ask MIL for anything for me. I no longer care what their relationship is but she has no right to ask her to buy ME anything. I told my DH that I have pride and I don't need any hand outs. I also told him next time his mother can buy tickers for him BM and the kid and keep me out of it. Sorry if that sounds harsh but I think that took a lot of nerve for the BM to even ask that. I mean I can see if she asked her for the money for BM and her daughter to go... but us?? I know she can't go because she is too large and lazy but still. Now mind you this is the BM that has her kid 2 days a month if I am lucky.
DH got mad at me about this... he at first didn't feel his ex wife did this! Well of course she did. I mean I know that the BM will never emotionally divorce him but to me it takes a lot of nerve to ask an ex mother in law this.