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gab-123's picture

I need some advice. Me and my boyfriend/ fiancé have been living together for almost a year. We've known each other for about 3 years. I live him dearly but its hard. Son know how to handle things. When we talk or argue things tend to be my fualt.when we aren't arguing things are perfect, we get told we were meant for each other. He blames me for not being able to save money and that he treats me the way he does because the way I act and say things. He tell me to leave him alone and he'll act like things are great when he's with his family. I don't know what I should do. He's a great guy and I would be devestated to loose him but is it what's suppose to happen? It makes things worse I I've depended on him so much that my family doesn't even want to help me. So if I left him I would have no where to go.. some kind of advice would be helpful.

Kes's picture

I agree with Echo, far from "a great guy" he sounds like a manipulative emotional abuser. It sounds like you are still with him only because you have nowhere else to go - so I suggest you put all your energies into sorting out THIS issue, not in trying to make this bad relationship work.