Email from exH...so frustrating
Start at the bottom and read up. This happens on a daily basis, usually I don't respond at all. We have been split for almost 4 years, and he's never stopped. I wish I didn't have to deal with him at all...he makes me sick. AND he has a frickin girlfriend! I'm so tempted to send this to her myspace, but I know he can just say I altered it and she'd believe him. Whatever.
PLAN ON IT, AND A KNUCKLE SANDWICH FOR OLE BOY
-----Original Message-----
From: Melissa
Sent: Friday, March 06, 2009 9:43 AM
To: Brandon MST2
Subject: RE:
The hell you are
-----Original Message-----
From: Brandon
Sent: Friday, March 06, 2009 9:43 AM
To: Melissa
Subject: RE:
And im gonna give you a big kiss next time I see you
-----Original Message-----
From: Melissa
Sent: Friday, March 06, 2009 9:42 AM
To: Brandon MST2
Subject: RE:
Ugh...whatev!
-----Original Message-----
From: Brandon
Sent: Friday, March 06, 2009 9:38 AM
To: Melissa
Subject: RE:
I LOVE YOU SOOOOOOOOO MUCH BABIES MOMMA, DON'T BE SO NEGATIVE-PUDDIN!
-----Original Message-----
From: Melissa
Sent: Friday, March 06, 2009 9:32 AM
To: Brandon MST2
Subject: RE:
Well I don't want to hear it
-----Original Message-----
From: Brandon
Sent: Friday, March 06, 2009 9:30 AM
To: Melissa
Subject: RE:
I do love you, babies momma
-----Original Message-----
From: Melissa
Sent: Friday, March 06, 2009 9:29 AM
To: Brandon MST2
Subject: RE:
Quit being gross
-----Original Message-----
From: Brandon
Sent: Friday, March 06, 2009 9:21 AM
To: Melissa
Subject: RE:
I love u puddin
-----Original Message-----
From: Melissa
Sent: Friday, March 06, 2009 9:21 AM
To: Brandon MST2
Subject: RE:
what
-----Original Message-----
From: Brandon
Sent: Friday, March 06, 2009 9:19 AM
To: Melissa
Subject:
yo
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Ignore him
Let him know that if it doesn't pertain to the child(ren) that you are not interested in it. Do not respond and feed into it. Ignore him and hopefully he will go away. Everytime you respond it makes him think there is a chance. As far as sending to GF on MySpace. Fuhghetaboutit. It can be turned around and bring more unnecessary drama into your life.
Just because one opens her legs twice, does not a mother make! ~ ME ~ }:-P
I wouldn't acknowledge it
You can also set up your e-mail to reject certain senders. That would get his goat!
"OCD sucks"
Habit and routine have an unbelievable power to destroy.
--Henri de Lubac
How do I do that? Will he
How do I do that? Will he know he's blocked? And normally yes I do ignore, guess I'm just in a bad mood today and felt like arguing with him!
"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"
Depends
on your e-mail program. Some will allow you to block, while others will simply move a sender's e-mail to a junk folder. In Outlook you can right click on one of his e-mails and select either junk e-mail and add to the junk sender or you can click create rule.
On any e-mail program click on help and type junk or block sender in the search bar. It should tell you how to do it.
"OCD sucks"
Habit and routine have an unbelievable power to destroy.
--Henri de Lubac
Yeah that what I have,
Yeah that what I have, outlook, and I've done that before. But unfortunately it doesn't tell him so he thinks they're coming through just the same...basically its just me not reading them. I was hoping there was a way for it to tell him he has been blocked and his messages cannot go through, then he'd actually stop sending them!
"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"
Why even respond at all. He
Why even respond at all. He is pushing buttons and getting a response from you so he is getting what he wants.
Never respond to them. Only respond to specific things about your children.
Normally I don't...but it
Normally I don't...but it doesn't stop him. I will still have 5-6 messages daily whether I respond or not. Then the last one he'll say stuff like "silence equals consent"...I mean, seriously...what is wrong with this guy to not stop after 4 YEARS!
"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"
Its sent from his coast
Its sent from his coast guard email (his work email). Once he's off work I don't get bothered!
"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"
If he is sending these
If he is sending these through the Coast Guard you can complain to his superior. Not that it gains you much and may do nothing but have him start another email address.
Depending on your spam filter, you can manually set any domain to go into your spam folder. Or click every email you get from him as spam and your filter will start picking them up for you.
Send him a registered letter that email is not an option to communicate about the children as all his email have been blocked going forward due ot his immature use of email.
forward
Forward it to the GF because she needs to know what a ****head he is. Also, place that email address into the delete box so you never see his crap.
forward
duplicate
I would put if on her Myspace too
then the next time he emails I would not respond unless he addressed something in it. He doesn't need a response if he does not have a question.
Easy Way To Stop This
If he is sending this from work, call and report him for harassment. Tell his boss that you have requested several times that he quit contacting you. Employers hate employees wasting time, if they will allow you to forward the emails to prove it, I'm sure they will take measures to stop.
He could be doing it to purposefully annoy you!
oh, I am positive he
oh, I am positive he probably thinks its funny to annoy me. The coast guard is already trying to kick him out, its pending...so I really don't want to get him in anymore trouble (for financial reasons for me, I obviously don't want him kicked out). He got a DUI last year and went to jail for 45 days, which is why they are trying to kick him out. I need him to stay in for another year & a half to be able to give his GI Bill to our son for college. But I'm going to go back to sending them to the junk email folder so I don't read them anymore and get irritated. Because when I'm having a bad day, I do respond just to lash out at him. And he probably loves the attention.
"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"
yes but its such a pain in
yes but its such a pain in the butt since I've had it so long...so many things are set up with this email!
"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"
Ack, what an ass
I would try to block him by creating a rule in your e-mail or mark him spam so he goes to junk. Or, like Danyelle suggested, just change your e-mail. Whatever you do, don't respond. That is what he wants. My ex did the same type of garbage for five years after we split. It was horrible; and even though we have been split for over eight years now he still says dumb things to me. I just ignore him. I wish you lots of luck with this.
I used to get this crap too
My BS dad used to do this crap to me for years. Send me notes, emails, etc. I just went about ignoring them but like you sometimes I would just get so pissed that I would answer him like you did. I finally blocked his email from my account - he should get an email message back saying that it is blocked. That might cuz more problems for you I don't know or I know it sucks to change your email address but you just may have to do that.