Relieved
It feels great knowing that it is okay to love my bio children more than my ss. I love having outings with my children especially when my ss goes over his mothers house.They haven't reached the age where they start asking why he has a different mom.I'm really not worried about it because we will jump that hurdle when we get to it.For now I'm just enjoying my children.
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A friend of mine (stepkid
A friend of mine (stepkid herself but no children - bio or step of her own) loves to try to tell me *WHY* I should be able to love my skids "the same" as my own.
Uhmm. I have been an aunt for 22 years and I love ALL 12 of my nieces and nephews like CRAZY but I can promise it does not compare, in any way, shape or form, to the love for my children!
She hates to be told "you'll understand if/when you have your own" but it is SO true!
It is natural to love your
It is natural to love your own children more than a stepchild. I don't care what anyone says, it is physically impossible to love another child more than your own.
I agree with the others. As
I agree with the others. As long as you're polite and kind to your SKs, that's all that matters.