BM Calld me a warm p___y infront of the kids.
DH went to pick up the steps. He set BM straight and told her flat out he is not her husband or her boyfriend he is married and he will not be her handyman. She can find someone else to help her stack things on high shelves and open pickle jars. Evidently BM doesn't understand that some things you just don't say around your children.
She called me DHs warm p____y and said that he only wants some young warm pussy and once I pop out more of his kids and stretch out he will be running back to her.
I didn't step out of the car but I wanted to. we just drove off and let her rant and rave to herself.
The kids questioned us about what BM said. We told them she was saying not such nice things that don't ever need to be repeated.
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OMGosh! Some people surprise
OMGosh! Some people surprise me at the crap that comes out of their mouths in front of children. You handled it very well. ALWAYS take the high road. It has paid off for me. My ssons will tell me about the mean things their mother STILL says about me and I just say "Well everyone is entitled to their opinion I suppose..."
OMG, I am amazed by these
OMG, I am amazed by these BM's who don't see how childish their behavior really is and how wrong it is in front of their children. The psychological damage they do to their own kids, it's really sad. I think you and DH handled it great.
Knowing me if the skids weren't around, I would have said " that's funny, DH told me he left because you were s-t-r-e-t-c-h-e-d out and he told me there was no way in hell he'd EVER go back to you!"
}:)
Wait, the kids were there
Wait, the kids were there when dad set mom straight? WTH
They showed poor judgement/ bad timing.
Yeah, I have to agree with
Yeah, I have to agree with this. Both mom and dad were in the wrong.
Op, while I can certainly understand your (and DH's) frustration, I think the conversation regarding boundaries would have been better had via email. That way, the kids wouldn't have to witness it and bm would have had one less opportunity to say rude things. Dh, very unintentionally, gave her an opportunity to say those things.
I don't see what was so wrong
I don't see what was so wrong with what he said to her - he didn't cuss or call her names. It was SHE who went too far. He was basically pointing out that he wasn't going to be at her beck and call anymore. And at least you didn't call her names/talk rudely about her in front of the kids. You handled it appropriately.
I would've wanted to get out of the car, too, but I'm not a confrontational kind of person. But good on your DH to at least defend you. MY DH is the kind to ignore what BM says, even though she made light of my recent miscarriage and the brief hospitalization of our 17-month-old (she called them "lame excuses" for his not getting the kids that weekend!) - I wanted him to step up to the plate and cuss HER out! But then again, BM isn't worth any second thought. She's always miserable, so she loves it when others have bad luck.
Getting back to the thread, our BM is the same. We were ALL told (by CAS) to not talk poorly about each other in front of the kids, which DH and I ARE careful not to do...but BM is a different story. She calls DH "donor" (as is SPERM donor, although I think that's inaccurate. I think she STOLE his sperm, rather than have him DONATE it willingly!), and what's worse, she has the KIDS calling him that, too! And they laugh like it's a JOKE! :jawdrop: Pretty soon, she'll have them thinking that DH isn't their real father, even though they look EXACTLY like him! SMH
am I rotten if all I can
am I rotten if all I can think of is Shelon's Coopers (Big Bang Theory) kitty song }:)
Warm pu**y
Soft pu**y
Warm pu**y
Little ball of fur.
Happy pu**y,
Sleepy pu**y,
Purr, purr, purr.