New here, so just introducing myself.
Truthfully, I never wanted kids. But love led me to a man who has a 10 year old girl. Okay, I thought this would be easy I admit, not realizing that she is adhd, and her BM lives less than a mile away from us. So let the manipulating begin. Nothing is ever HER fault, it must be because of the adhd. Fight with mom? I wanna go live with dad! Fight with dad, I wanna go live with mom!
I'm so fed up with all of them letting the behavior happen and excusing it without consequences I could scream! Not to mention the fact that BM feels a need to call daily at all hours, trying to micromanage what happens in MY house. We have to leave the phone unplugged when we have SD just so that we get some peace and quiet time, which interferes with family and business calls we would ordinarily be getting.
I just try to keep breathing, and tell myself 8 more years...
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Don't answer the phone. She
Don't answer the phone. She can speak with her daughter to say hi or what not, but she gets no say in your home. Your DH should handle this.
I know, and he does to a
I know, and he does to a point. It's just a case of she has a hard time letting anything go. She still bothers exboyfriends from years ago too. Lucky me, I get the psycho ex to deal with. Oh well, it felt good to vent about it.
I guess no matter what you do
I guess no matter what you do your BM she just won't get the "boundaries"
Our BM has never called our home phone. She stopped calling SO. I had him put a stop to it. She used to call him to tell on the kids when they were in trouble AT HER HOUSE. She doesn't talk to me because I have a "don't look at me" facial expression.