Dear Valued Users,
It's with a heavy heart that we announce the permanent closure of StepTalk.org on August 31st, 2025.
This decision wasn't an easy one. For over twenty years, StepTalk has been a source of support for stepparents around the world! However, over the years, the costs associated with maintaining and upgrading the site to remain secure, meet current standards and maintain availability have become unsustainable.
We are incredibly grateful for your support, contributions and the community you've helped us build. Your engagement has made StepTalk.org a special place and we cherish the memories and connections made here.
We would especially like to thank Aniki for volunteering to be a moderator and for caring so much.
Thank you for being a part of our journey and we wish you all the best.
Sincerely,
Dawn and The StepTalk Team
Comments
Wait until after the baby is
Wait until after the baby is born and you have stress-induced incontinence! Then, every time you sneeze, you pee a little. Fun!
Try over the counter
Try over the counter hydrocortisone cream. IT WORKS!
Well, don't let all our fun
Well, don't let all our fun mom secrets out of the bag, Crayon! You gotta leave some happy surprises! }:) BTW, I agree with you that's the case for most women, although there are those few who are lucky and their "girls" look just like they did before after BFing and you just want to kick them! LOL
I laughed so hard at this
I laughed so hard at this post that I peed a little. My kids are 17 and 14 and I still have to cross my legs when I sneeze so I wont pee.
Don't worry the first few months you will be to tired to notice how you look or feel.. }:)
LOL I just had a baby and it
LOL I just had a baby and it is way worse after the delivery. Granted I had a c-section but I swear everytime I poop it feels like I am having a baby from the hemmorhoids

Good luck
Thank goodness we're able to
Thank goodness we're able to talk about this kind of stuff here
DD is 5 months old and I'm still running to pee so I don't wet myself. My DS who is 3 told me maybe I should wear a diaper. I still get up twice a night to pee.
Forget being normal again!!!
Awe. You know, any kind of
Awe. You know, any kind of lifting or bending or stretching can cause this. You know what is soothing is those Tuks witch hazel pads. They come in a jar.
Be good to yourself and rest and take care mama!