BM called in the wee hours of the morning panting asking me to tell DH that when he picks up the kids after school for mid-week visitation to keep them the rest of the week. I asked her why and she told me not to worry about it and hung up. DH called her back and he said she was panting and sounding panicked and begged him to keep the kids for the rest of the week. We agreed to keep the kids but she was scaring us so I Asked DH to take a drive with me past her house to make sure she is ok. She answers the door in her bathrobe and we can hear her boyfriend inside calling her. I asked her if everything was ok and she said she was fine. She looked ok she didn't look visibly shaken or frightened. DH asked her if everything was ok and why she wanted us to take the kids and to tell us if anything is wrong and we will help her. She said everything was fine and laughed at us for driving over there.

My gut tells me all is not right. Either she is scared of something or someone or she is playing us for fools. I want her to have a psych evaluation because from the moment I met her I felt she was just not in the right headspace. I'm worried about her and the kids and so is DH.