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Now SO is Pissed Off at me for Accusing Skids of taking my $15!!! Wow.

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Submitted by ubrngoutdbitchnme on Fri, 04/13/2012 - 7:26pm

I love how he asked SD16 if she BORROWED $15 from me......UnFUCKENreal! Now they are all making me believe that I am losing my mind. That I somehow misplaced my money. Yeah, everybody I misplaced my money, yup, that is exactly what I did.

I never accused them. He is the one that right away started defending skids when I called to tell him about my missing money. How he doesn't appreciate me accusing them. I never accused them! I just said that I HAD $15 in my purse that weren't there anymore. Whatfuckenever!

But before asking SD16 about her "borrowing" my money, I paid a visit to my Favorite Department Store and spent some money. Feels good...I could care less about those $15 now that I have my new "pricey" purse that SO paid FULL price for. I didn't really need those 2 pairs of shoes but man I'm going to look good in them. }:)

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Submitted by imjustthemaid on Fri, 04/13/2012 - 7:28pm

Oh god his precious SD could do no wrong!! This is why I hide my purse in my room at all times!! Good for you for going shopping. I would have done the same thing }:)

I have no doubt that SD15 would take money out of my purse if she was to be left alone with it. I used to keep it in the kitchen. Not anymore!!

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Submitted by GizmoBarnOwl on Fri, 04/13/2012 - 7:33pm

Ah sigh. i know how you feel. my sd8 seems to be taking stuff too. today he got defensive over a pack of tissues that have gone missing from my car!!!! I wasn't bothered about it until he started saying "well MY kids havnt touched them" - they're sodding tissues!!!! Now im annoyed about it because im bored of tiptoeing round the topic of her stealing!!!
...enjoy your shoes Wink

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Submitted by PeanutandSons on Fri, 04/13/2012 - 7:39pm

Sd9 has stolen from all of us (even the 2yr old!) before. I've stopped carrying cash all together. If I need cash I only take out excactly what I need and spend it that day, other than that I use my debit card only.

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Submitted by ubrngoutdbitchnme on Fri, 04/13/2012 - 7:43pm

I made sure to tell him that it was okay about the money because my new shoes were going to make me feel better...

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Submitted by KLM on Fri, 04/13/2012 - 10:15pm

BS!

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Submitted by bi on Fri, 04/13/2012 - 10:19pm

love the semantics. if she says yes, she "borrowed" it, then it's ok that she helped herself to your purse. (eye roll). a couple of years ago, fdh gave sd about $12 of my money. when both people are on unemployment, $12 can be a lot of money. he had gone to the grocery store to get dog food while she was here the day before. the next day i asked him for my change because i needed to get gas to get to school. he hemmed and hawed and said he didn't have it. i asked him where it was then. he instantly got defensive and told me he gave it to sd because she only had a quarter tank of gas. i was HOT. i told him her gas isn't my problem, MINE is. i don't appreciate him giving MY money away. i asked him how the hell he expected me to get to school and told him if she had no gas, maybe she shouldn't have driven the half hour to get here for absolutely no reason at all. he hasn't gotten done any such thing since then. }:)

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Submitted by smdh on Sat, 04/14/2012 - 8:59am

I read an article about parenting that was entitled "Anything after BUT is bullshit". It basically told parents that if their kid was using "But" as part of an apology or explanation, they weren't taking responsibility and holding themselves accountable for crappy behavior and that any discipline should be focused on what came BEFORE the BUT.

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Submitted by whatwasithinkin on Mon, 04/16/2012 - 1:52pm

we have missing easter candy at my house. two three lb bags, SD16 let us know that she took one because she needed it for an experiment at school and "forgot" to tell us. and the other 3lbs bag is just "missing" Now that the gig is up alittle on SD after the counselor has opened DH eyes. I wish you could have seen his face when he came into the bedroom after he sent her upstairs to tell me. I think his words were F"ing thief.