hospital (kaos), surgery (dh), and MOTY
i've been relatively quiet here. kaos has been in the hospital since friday - they changed treatment tactics yesterday, so if there is not significant improvement today dh will discharge him himself from our local hospital, and take him to a well-known children's hospital in another town.
dh was supposed to have his pre-op appt on friday, of course that got rescheduled to yesterday, which was rescheduled for today. he's set for surgery tomorrow, *IF* all goes well with kaos. so i've already told the girls here at work that i will be out wed-fri this week. i'm just hoping the pitiful kid has marked improvement today - dh NEEDS this surgery and i'd hate to see it put off, although i'd totally understand if he needed to.
dumb@$$ has reared her ugly head a few times at the hospital, incoherent as can be. i told dh GOOD, i'm GLAD - not for kaos, but for her to show him herself what she's become. he wont hear jack schitt from dh or i about her (lord knows he wouldnt be receptive!) but he can see her with his own eyes and make his own opinions. even if he defends her blindly, any input about her comes straight from his own observations. funny sidenote, dh was talking to her own mother (g-ma) while kaos was in the bathroom, and he made a comment about her teeth. g-ma responds "well (insert dh's name), they're rotten!" - like, duuuhhh!!! g-ma refuses to leave kaos' room when dumb@$$ shows up.
and happy for me, dh's mother offered to stay the night w/ kaos, so dh was able to come home last night. YAY!!!!! even squirrel#1 was in a cuddlier mood this morning thanks to daddy being back in the bed. ^_^