Ok, so she came over yesterday and H tells me to give her a bath today. Well, she's skin and bones, literally. :o(

I told H the last time SD came over that she only likes to eat sweets and junk, then come time for regular food, she just picks at it. And yet again yesterday for dinner she said she didn't want it and H threatened to send her to bed early if she didn't. You guessed it, she didn't and he didn't put her bed early, instead she watched TV until 11pm and when she complained about being hungry he offered her sweet cereal with candy marshmellows. ARRRGH!!! So, I said "why don't you make a sandwich instead or a scrambled egg. Of course she didn't want that and H is a push over. What's up with that? He complains about BM but I don't see the difference with him.

Sooo, he and I had a disagreement about him needing to teach and enforce good eating habits. 1/2 hour later, H asks me to watch cartoons with him and SD. I said no, going to sleep. Then he had the nerve to ask why I had an attitude. DUUHHH?!? And I matter of factly mentioned I don't appreciate you enabling her poor eating habits and you don't follow through, you said you would put her to bed if she didn't eat dinner and you didn't, goodnight )and went to my son's room.) THE END.

Where is the sanity in all of this??? God help us!!!