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SS14 MISBEHAVES THEN GETS TO PLAY VIDEO GAMES??

TBILL's picture

I DON'T UNDERSTAND....SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME OUT HERE, I'M O.K. WITH HEARING THAT I'M
CRAZY OR BEING TOO SENSITIVE....MY 14 YEAR OLD SS COULDN'T HATE ME ANYMORE THAN HE
ALREADY DOES. TO BE HONEST I'M DONE KISSING HIS ASS TRYING TO HAVE HIM LIKE ME!! SO
I'VE BEEN TAKING A BACK SEAT MORE HANDS OFFISH APPROACH. I JUST LISTEN DON'T DO MUCH
TALKING. THE THING THAT IRRITATES ME IS THAT AFTER HE BEHAVES AS A REAL JERK STARING AT
THE WALL DURING A MEAL, NOT ANSWERING ME OR INTERACTING IN ANY WAY WHAT SO EVER, EVEN WITH
GUEST WE HAVE IN THE HOUSE HE STILL GETS THE PRIVILEGE OF PLAYING XBOX 360 AND PRETTY MUCH
GOING ABOUT HIS USUAL DAY. HE DOESN'T HAVE ANY DOWNSIDE AS FAR AS I CAN SEE FOR BEHAVING THE
WAY HE DOES. ITS REALLY FRUSTRATING. TONIGHT AT DINNER AFTER HIS DAD TOOK HIM TO SEE A MOVIE
ALONE, HIS DAD WAS TRYING TO MAKE CONVERSATION BY SAYING THAT THE SS14 SAID IT WAS THE BEST
MOVIE HE HAD EVER SEEN. SO I RESPONDED TO SS14 BY SAYING REALLY? HE TOTALLY IGNORED ME THEN
LOOKED AT HIS DAD WHO SAID ANSWER HER SHE IS SPEAKING TO YOU THEN HE HAD THE NERVE TO SAY I
DID. OH MY GOODNESS SO HE'S MEANING TO TELL US THAT ALL THREE OF US LOOKING AT HIM DIDN'T HEAR
OR SEE HIM RESPOND?? MY GOD, HE HONESTLY THINKS WE ARE SO STUPID THAT HE'S GOING TO CONVINCE US
THAT WE ALL MUST OF BLINKED DURING THE CONVERSATION.....UGH. SO FRUSTRATED.
BUT THAT'S OK BECAUSE HE WILL JUST HEAD DOWN TO THE BASEMENT AND PLAY X-BOX WHEN
WE GET HOME. WHICH WAS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED.
- SO DEFEATED.

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hehatesme's picture

Yes defeated is exactly how you will feel. My SS16 has been doing this for 6 1/2 years! If im in the kitchen, he wont even come in to get a drink. meanwhile my girls must "listen and obey" to my DH and all i get is. "Ill take care of it" when it come to his son. this has gone on so long i cant believe it still has the ability to piss me off so much, i just wish my dh could have seen the monster he has created! My SS16 doesn't have to follow ANY of our rules ( he lives with us) and if he is an ass, he's allowed to just trot off to his cave and ABSOLUTELY nothing happens to him. He yells, cusses,etc at me, slammed my arm in his door on my birthday, and WA LAA we must not talk about it. FIND PEACE and disengage yourself from the rage you feel, it'll only get worse. Im trying every day to just "not care' but its soo hard.y dh parents by guilt and my SS16 also has recently been diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and has no filters to gage his emotions- or so they say.. Peace be with ya sis- maybe we should be "buddies" on here, sounds like we have the same crapola on our life!