Why all the games??
this morning was horrible. SD is here for the weekend and truth is I just don’t trust her to do what she’s told. I told H this morning SD is to clean herself. Bottom line she has terrible hygiene and at 9 years old still doesn’t know how to wash her hands. I told him she needs to bewatched. He tells me to have a talk with her. I said no you can tell her and watch her because I don’t trust her to be told things and then do them. He’s making me whisper. I told him I can’t walk on egg shells anymore (mind you SD was spying on us and listening to every word) I told him it’s always like this. If it was just our children it wouldnt be a problem but because she’s not mine she’s going to run back to her mother tell her everything and then it’s going to be another fight. Every visitation it gets harder and harder. SD then started crying to H and accusing me of hating her. My husband then went into the other room and said “she thinks you hate her” I said “H I can’t live like this she always thinks I hate her I drop a pin on the floor and I hate her” he then asked me if I wanted to make our marriage work. I said I can’t be the enemy anymore I’m tired of living like this. I told him to do what he does best go comfort her take her out and leave me here. He is now at the movies with SD coddling her.
I cant with the manipulation. I am a mother of two and I don’t have a job. Daycare cost too much for me to work. My son has autism and goes to a special school. I’m currently taking on line classes at home so I can get a job but it’s all just really hard. I can’t believe I made this choice to be with someone like this. Not to mention my children will now suffer. I should have seen the signs years ago and left. No matter what you do or how good you are or how many kids you have with your husband you’re always the enemy.