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Signs that Parental Alienation is becoming more widely recognized!

stormabruin's picture

I "like" a page on FB called "The Love & Iron Project". They just posted this link on their page. Though my steps are older, with alienation having been such an ordeal for us for so many years, it makes my heart feel good to know that there are people (the person who posted this on Ebay is a victim of Parental Alienation) who are working hard to get the word out & make it known that this is a real issue.

http://www.ebay.com/itm/111177879725?ssPageName=STRK%3AMESELX%3AIT&_trks...

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new to this's picture

I need to get this for SD15 but she wouldn't wear it, cause you know it might hurt her BM feelings!!! And we don't want that.....eye roll

stormabruin's picture

I know. I'm getting one to wear myself. I considered sharing the link on my FB so that SS & SD could see it. They're old enough to understand it, but still too loyal to BM to accept it.

It'd just piss them off.

So, I'll wear mine & if they ask about it, I'll explain the meaning behind it. If they're open to recognizing the resemblance between the meaning & their situation, great. If not, maybe they'll just go home & tell BM about the stupid bracelet I wear & share the explanation with her.

Chances are, the message will go unnoticed & they'll ride home, laughing, all the way, about me wearing a green bracelet that doesn't match my outfit. Then they'll all feel sorry for the poor kids who have abusive parents & thank the Lord that the 3 of them all have each other. :sick:

stormabruin's picture

Not really visiting, but we'll meet them out somewhere & go eat or something.

The last time we saw them was at MIL's funeral in August, & of course BM was with them.

However, SD did call DH (for the first time since they went back to BM in 2004) a couple of weeks ago. BM's stepdad is bringing SD in to town on Mondays for math tutoring, & SD called to see if DH would be able to meet them for lunch that week.

DH only gets 30 min for lunch so he couldn't really go sit somewhere & eat with them, so she asked if they could just come by where he was working & see him for a few minutes. That's what they did, & it was good.

SD seems to be more interested in fixing their relationship since MIL passed. SS is still an ass & wants to visit...with strings attached.