Does anyone feel judged by everyone on being a step mother
I learned last night that my very own sister told my fiance that he shouldnt marry me because I need to be with someone who doesnt have kids. I am assuming she said this to him because we had a disagreement last week about picking the kids up and I was mad because I was tired. Second;y, I have vented to my sster before and said some things I didn;t mean about being a step mom but told her the next day I was just mad. .I am not exaclty sure what the whole conversation was last night but I also walked out of a therpay sesson when we told the therpist how we disagreed over gettting the kids that day to where she said "well your marrying a man with kids" I walked out. Why does everyone judge me and If i have any feelings towards picking them up or not soemtimes and want my feelings to be taken into cosideration then I am soooooo horrible and keeping him from his kids. We get them every week and I really don;t undertstand what is so wrong with working alot and sometimes not feeling like dealing with having them. Not beacse I dont love them but kids need attention and sometimes when I get home I am so exhausted I don;t have it in me. My sister told him last night that we shouldnt get married and we fight too much and that my own step mother agrees with her. I dont know what brought on this conversation but I feel so hurt and judged. Help!