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Wait what?!? Now I'm the bad guy wtf!!

Stepmonster1981's picture

Had SD7 this weekend, got her hair chopped. Goes back to BM today and SO gets his nightly phone call at 745pm. BM chirping in he back ground talking thru SD (put in CO BM is not allowed to talk to SO thru SD) BM continues SO tells SD she doesn't have to repeat it. Then the convo changes to the nickname I call SD ( tried at dinner yesterday to figure out a nickname for SD seeing how DD has one, SD laughing says call me buttface. We all made a joke and I said no lol) fast forward to Sd being with BM crazy pants. BM griping hat I call SD buttface and how it's rude and wrong and blah blah fuken blah!! So now I'm the jerk. How does that even work?!?!?? Ummm SD gave herself that name you crazy pants! Get the real facts first like come on.

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AllinThisTogether4's picture

Things can get mixed by any parent birth or step when you are dealing with a 7 year old. I wouldn't worry too much about it. But Io see that maybe even though butt face is a silly name and may make her laugh that her Mother may be worried that she will repeat it at school etc.

Stepmonster1981's picture

Lmfao!!! Love it. BM sure can twist. Draw a heart and write buttface hahaha I'm still laughing.

Anon2009's picture

What a crazy thing to gripe about. I would've felt for her a little more if she had a gripe about you getting her hair cut. That's happened and been talked about lots here before. But to lose her marbles over a silly nickname is crazy.

Stepmonster1981's picture

I question her intelligence daily lol. BM is beyond stupid and that is being nice haha. I thought the same thing sweet pea.

Lmfao I know right crazy pants undid her belt and some crazy spilled out!

Stepmonster1981's picture

I said :"you want me to call you buttface?!?!? No I don't want to call you that its not nice. Lets try to find a better one, I don't want to be going outside calling for buttface to come in the house" SD laughed and laughed then said ok. I have a DD why would I go around calling DS buttface LOL I wouldn't. BM just likes to pick at me and blame me for everything. Over anything and everything. SD pees the bed my fault, SD wont eat her dinner, my fault, SD whines, my fault, SD doesn't listen, my fault. Its just something else for her to fester over and be a cow about. BM is crafty with her twisting of words.

JingerVZ's picture

It's not a nice nickname for anyone- even if she gave it to herself.
Her BM was bound to take offence.
Change it to something more appropriate.

I am sure you would not like BM calling your kid butthead... Try looking at it from her point of view, she sees it as you insulting her kid.

kathc's picture

I once got yelled at for being a horrible, awful wretch who was forcing skids into slave labor because we were talking about getting a dog and I jokingly said, "But who will pick up the poop when you're not with us?" and was laughing the whole time. Yeah, that flipped to I said we can't get a dog unless skid comes over every day to pick up its poop because I wasn't going to do it myself. :?

Stepmonster1981's picture

Your evil!!! You made a joke! LOL gawd really! Well thanks for sharing I don't feel so alone in the BM twist! Smile